Originally posted by @Cornelius Charles:
@Michael M.
It sounds like to me you need to have a little more realistic expectations.
You wrote "Where's the big money? Where's the payday that helps me get to financial stability?" What do you bring to the table to get that big payday? It sounds like your experience is in truck/bus driving. What is the average salary for that line of work? Why would you expect to earn more than the market pays for that skillset. It sounds like you are hoping to make it big without working a regular 9-5 and reading too many "rags to riches" stories that may or may not be realistic. In this economy, I'm having trouble understanding why you are unable to find a job. Yeah, it may not be what you ideally want, but something is better than nothing.
I don’t think your lowball offers are going to get you very far in this market. I think real estate investing is going to be a tough nut to crack in your area until the market changes. As you mention, not much reason for sellers to sell at a discount now-a-days.
"It sounds like to me you need to have a little more realistic expectations."
> That's always true of anyone. We could all lower our expectations. But where would that get us? No disrespect, for real bro, but Rosa Parks wasn't realistic, she was bold, and she made a difference for everyone. Much love.
"What do you bring to the table to get that big payday?"
> I get that. It depends what table we are talking about.
I have a class B CDL airbrake with passenger endorsement. I started out driving school buses. The pay was awful. Translation, I can drive a bus 40' or 45', cement mixer, limo, etc, three axles or less for hire. Pay for these jobs is poverty level. The only "decent pay" I've seen is driving a bus as a city employee, not an easy gig to get, I've tried. My millionaire acquaintance who refused to mentor me BTW, commented I could drive around a bus load of investors to browse properties, when prices adjust, as you alluded to
"It sounds like you are hoping to make it big without working a regular 9-5"
> Name one person who made it big working a 9-5 job? Unless you hit the lottery, a 9-5 will just keep you in the shrinking working class poor.
"Reading too many "rags to riches" stories"
> I stand guilty as charged. Success is not a destination but a journey. The constructs of which you either accept or design of your own accord. BP would not exist with guests who've proven success despite adversity is possible.
"In this economy, I'm having trouble understanding why you are unable to find a job."
> Obama did one thing well; create demand for more part-time employees that don't qualify for health coverage. There are laws in California against nepotism, and yet in the city I left behind, one counsel member on the dias just happens to gotten lucky when his wife got the job as city clerk. Same city, another counsel member has been on the dias 34 years and his son just so happen to make sergeant of the Police department. Same city another council member on the dias has a cousin who just so happens to have not only walked my condo when it was on the MLS and not make a written offer, but trespassed again on a different date on the property while I was visiting the mayor's house. Who knows what he was looking for and still no offer was made, nor appointment recorded. The Lock box record doesn't lie. I arrived to the condo to find the door unlocked and wide open. I took it as a message. The door was locked when I left. This same person is supposedly an "ethics attorney" and not only landed a job in the same city as chair of the planning committee, but was able to lateral to the position of city treasurer before stepping down amid rumors. Strange bed fellows, I think not. These two are allegedly related and said counsel member had to disclose a preexisting relationship. Hold on, same city another counsel member on the dias just happened to have per campaign manager appointed to the planning committee as well, she also happens to be her lover. Small world. Nepotism runs deep in southern California. Part time jobs are plenty. Many of them the product of the affordable care act provision whereby fulltime employees must be provided medical coverage. So guess what happened to those full time positions that have a living wage? They got cut way back to seniority. New hires most everywhere are part time, no benefits. It's rough starting out.
"I don’t think your lowball offers [aren't] going to get you very far in this market."
> Your right. MLS deals are thin, and any investor worth two sh*ts knows it. That's why I have taken a real estate class, passed, have my pre-license certificates in hand and may get my sales person license, as most agents are not interested in helping anyone make low offers. It simply isn't worth their time. Or so I've heard from them. When I get my license I can write my own offers. Until then a real estate attorney will do just fine. Less disclosures. I'll arrange the rest for now.
As of now I can bird dog for an investor, drive for dollars, speak well or so I've been told, communicate by email, text, etc., drive, make deliveries, act as a resident manager for a 16 unit apartment complex as I have onsite property experience, assist at a property management office, perform computer duties such as website, graphics, printing, photography, technical support, customer service, video editing, and speak in three languages. The challenge in southern CA is Hispanic nepotism, La Raza movement is alive and well, or not speaking Manderin Chinese, its increasingly a requirement sadly.
So yeah, I won't quit looking for the right opportunity in sales, like solar, or getting a cushy government job with benefits, but the private sector has a big fat target on human labor due largely in part to the Affordable Care Act requirements. California is working its way to a higher minimum wage and I fully expect corporations to respond with more automation, outsourcing or the favorite tactic: CUTTING HOURS.
Of all the jobs I ever had, being a web developer was the most stressful at times, but financially rewarding at $28/hr. Sadly our biggest client left to Atlanta and you can guess the rest.
I just got done listening to Grant Cardone power players podcast. His guest was inspirational. A local to boot, just a few miles from where I am this very moment. I'm not delusional, but accepting certain realities is just not going to help me reach my full potential.
Somewhere out there there is either a unique opportunity for me to get ahead, or for me to create for myself. I've been lucky enough to meet a few good people in my life that didn't accept abject poverty as the norm. They rose above the hype and stacked paper. Again poverty is a mindset and it's your choice to stay at a dead end job or strive for opportunity. Wealth is transient.
Skate to where the puck is going, not where it has been.” - Wayne Gretzky