@J. Martin Great to e-meet you! I'm with you re: the market. I am trying to be optimistic but we'll see how much "house hacking" is possible and for how much $$$. May be "next next" spring, but at least I'll be in the flow a bit more. Otherwise, yes I work in biotech, though I'm more of a hardware / energy guy. However, the South City stereotypes exist for a very excellent reason!
Will definitely take your advice re: meetups, though probably in a few months once I can have a half-intelligent conversation :)
I think that Pacifica has brilliant potential as a suburb for SF b/c you can drive a short distance and hop on BART. The problem with Pacifica is that it is NOT kid friendly. I drove around the entire area a few months ago and wasn't impressed. Very few playgrounds. Very few good schools. Maybe some diamonds in the rough, but I also want to raise my kids there, so I'm trying to thread a very find needle. I'd rather do a fixer-upper in Burlingame :)
Thanks again for the thoughtful note!