@Lennie Holland I am willing to listen and learn, which is why I am here.
Here's the situation:
1. I am an I.T. consultant and I make about $19,000/month GROSS on W2 and another $14,000 NET on 1099. I have about $26,000 in take home pay each month. That is of course not the real number because I have mortgages, food, utilities, etc to pay for.
2. I started to invest in real estate early this year so I can make good use of the extra money I have. I spoke to different agents and told them my goals. I read books and listened to audiobooks, and even plan to get a real estate license soon for tax purposes.
3. Ultimately my goal is to build a portfolio of single family or multi-family homes that I can rent out. The approach I want to take, based on what I learned listening to audiobooks, is to put as little money out as possible and get that ROI as soon as possible.
4. So I did that and managed to get a 3-unit multi-family and one SFH this year. My agent and broker advised me to get the properties at 3.5% FHA owner-occupied, live in it for a couple of months, and then rent it out. Since my I.T. consulting work allows me to live at different locations around Los Angeles for months at a time depending on the duration of the contract, I can live on the property and then move out and rent it out after I get another contract at a different location. After 6 months they said that we can re-finance the property into a conventional so I can qualify on another FHA.
5. My problem, which was also due to my own fault, is that I couldn't wait. My first property has not hit 6 months yet and I wanted to make another purchase. The property for sale is right next to me and because I know that the house I bought was a good investment I didn't want to let it pass.
6. To still qualify for another 3.5% down both my agent and broker advised me to find someone I know that could be the primary borrower with me being the non-occupying co-borrower. And so that's what I did and I got pre-approved.
7. We went into escrow and everything was fine except that the underwriter came back and said that I must be related to the primary borrower per FHA guidelines. The primary borrower is my GF's son so legally we are not related.
8. I asked for help here but then @Dion DePaoli immediately assumed I was committing fraud.
Now here's what ticked me:
1. What Dion is telling me is that I should act like a "real" investor and put 20% down. He went further with the "real businessmen" and "integrity" claims. That's too egoistic for me. I am asking for help and am willing to listed but egoistic responses like that is not something I can tolerate.
2. How can it be considered fraud if I am still following the guidelines and trying to qualify legally? @Bill Gulley, who as you said is an experienced, told me to marry my GF. So if I did that and got approved does that mean I am committing fraud? If I pull my sister to purchase the house with me and she gets approved is that fraud? That's what I believe is being "creative" and if everyone here still thinks that is fraud then I would humbly accept I am wrong and change my approach.
It is not wrong to avoid taxes, just don't evade it. It is also not wrong to avoid putting 20% down when you can legally get a property for 15, 10, 5, or 3.5% down.
So what am I doing wrong?