Hello Melissa,
This is my very first post on BP! Congrats on your new adventure, I hope to be doing what your doing very soon! I regards to cabinetry... I'm jumping the gun a little, my plan was to introduce myself to the network, learn from others and offer what I "bring to the table"... I am a woodworker/cabinet builder by trade and own a kitchen remodeling contract business in Southern California... but I haven't even filled out my profile yet!
As a contractor, I get true wholesale pricing from some of the biggest manufacturers in the country including the ones you would pay retail for at the big box stores that you mentioned.
If you are interested, I would be happy to create a layout, design and 3d rendering for you for free and give you a couple different price points for cabinetry. At a minimum, can use the drawings for obtaining other bids, it's fine with me. Even though I'm far away, all orders ship directly to you from the manufacturer and shipping is included. Even if you don't order from them, would be a good learning experience for both of us.... and I'm offering this at no cost to you... just looking to start networking! (This goes for anybody else as well... more info coming in my intro)
Doesn't matter if you know what you want or not from a layout-design standpoint, just supply me with a layout of the kitchen (can be hand drawn on a napkin... just need the lengths and height of walls, window locations... maybe take pic's as well), I'll be happy to do this for you. Keep in mind, you will get much better pricing and quality than the box stores, but it does take 3-5 weeks depending on the manufacturer you decide on... and installation is not included.
I plan posting more information soon for everybody... but for now, good luck and let me know if I can help!
Mike Chillinsky