I'm grateful to BP because help I got here on the forum in 2013 gave me the knowledge base, insight, and courage to foreclose on a property I held the mortgage note on. A private mortgage situation...one of those things a really savvy investor never would have agreed to. But at the time, I just didn't know. It was five and a half years ago, I knew a lot less about investing than I do now, and I was scared of the stock market. Making the loan seemed like a win-win, and I was newly divorced in the midst of a bad (and worsening) economy....
To explain a bit more, becoming a private mortgage lender was not something I went looking for. It was a request put in front of me--completely unexpected. I looked at it....It seemed like way to get better returns than a CD would ever give me, and (though I'm ashamed to admit now that I let emotion lead me in this decision) it was a way to help a family-friend-plus-kid stay in the family home after a divorce. Of course, you can write the rest of this story, right? The family friend stopped paying after a couple years, and an attitude of entitlement set in. "You can't take my house away....You'd never do that, would you? I thought you were a good person. Don't you know how many problems I have?"
Confused and shaken, I went to the forum here to find out what in the world I could do about the situation. Was there a way to sell the note? Was I stuck? How could I get out of this no-win deal? What were my legal rights?
Immediately, I heard back on the forum from a collection of real estate financial experts and mortgage brokers. The advice wasn't all that encouraging, but it was honest and straightforward and made one thing abundantly clear: I needed to get really good legal help right away--and I needed to brace myself for the possibility that I'd only get a portion of my investment back. But after all, a percentage was better than nothing--and I couldn't allow myself to stay in limbo, while the homeowner slipped further and further behind (sometimes making inexplicable partial payments of just a couple hundred dollars at odd times).
I made efforts to talk with the homeowner. I offered to extend a deed in lieu of foreclosure, as I was advised to attempt by "Team Bigger Pockets." I was flatly turned down...laughed at, actually.
So, with that outreach crossed off my list, I went on to put a real estate attorney in charge of the whole process. The homeowner got back on track with payments for awhile and then started missing again.
So, we started the foreclosure process.
Heard nothing back from the homeowner (henceforward known as HO :-)
Then...the news that HO had declared bankruptcy.
Foreclosure halted.
Then the news that the bankruptcy was not going to proceed.
Foreclosure on again.
Finally, the HO decided to sell, before the auction date hit.
Would I consider holding off on the foreclosure to allow the sale to close?
I agreed (though with some hesitation)--and the closing went smoothly. Got every penny of my loan back, plus all the interest and late fees that had accrued.
I can't even tell you the relief I felt holding the check in my hand, after that 15-month battle.
It's funny...you know, Bigger Pockets also helped equip me with the info I needed to acquire eight rental properties in 2013/2014--and sure, I'm thankful for all of that guidance too. But what I'm most thankful for is the way the community rallied round me (with no lecturing or tsk tsks). I was, at the time, a brand-new member. So it's not as though I had any relationships to bank on before I yelled for help with the horrible "mortgage-gone-wrong" drama. It was a humiliating thing to go through. I felt as foolish as I've ever have in my life...and it was good to get some just-the-facts expert guidance.
Once I get my investment back out, I was able to partner with another real estate investor in a pretty cool flip...and make a quick profit. I was also able to put some money into one of my rentals and sell IT for a nice gain. And with cash-flow restored, my next investment was in training/coaching in my primary business, which is copywriting and SEO.
As my thank you to the community, I'd like to invite anyone here who's in need of local SEO services to reach out to me. I'm fine-tuning my process before I market my package of services widely. And I'd love to work with some RE service professionals with physical office addresses, to help them rank highly for the keywords they're competing for locally.
PM me if you'd like to take advantage of my gift of 6-8 hours of SEO consultation. I'm not marketing services here, just to be clear. I'm looking to give something back to y'all...while I also sharpen new skills.
Thanks, everyone. Happy Thanksgiving.
Maureen