All Forum Posts by: Matt Wood

Hey brother, 

I guess this is more life perspective than real estate perspective but I have had the opportunity to sit down and meet with some pretty amazing people and the number one thing I think you can do for yourself here is solidify the RELATIONSHIP!

Instead of having the whole conversation based around what you are trying to get out of it or what you can learn from him make sure to ask him about his story. How did he get there, what motivated him to get started initially, what are some of the biggest successes or mistakes he's had, what would he go back and tell himself if he was starting off as a newbie. Talk to him about fishing, does he have a family?

One of my personal favorites to inquire about is what is he currently working on what are his current goals and what can you do to help him get there. Even as a new investor, every body has some type of value to offer, it could be money for one of his investments (which could be less than you ever think it has to be), could be time and effort that you can offer him to find more deals or maybe you have a construction background. 

When you present yourself as someone that is interested in the relationship (and hopefully you genuinely are) you'll find yourself meeting with him more and gaining value far beyond what you think you need to know going into this first meeting. Good luck brother, I hope this helps, I genuinely think this is the best thing you can do when seeking a mentor. 

I would just ask him if he could share his story of how he got started and why he chose real estate.  Questions and comments will naturally develop during the story.

I wouldnt even bring up real estate.   Let him do it.    Its more important to see if you get along.

Hi @Matt Wood, what area of Texas are you looking for recommendations?  Greater Houston or another metro?