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All Forum Posts by: Kylie A.

Kylie A. has started 9 posts and replied 44 times.

Quote from @Jordan Lulich:

Where are you located? The best banks that I have found based on your main concerns are smaller, regional, community sized banks.


 i realized imma go with amex for now bc there business credit cards are good, then if i make more ill switch to chase or maybe boa 

Quote from @Jonathan Greene:
Quote from @Kylie A.:
Quote from @Jonathan Greene:

The best bank is the one that you will use. You are procrastinating on the smallest of things which means you may lack the confidence to do what you are planning to do. Chase or B of A or any bank isn't going to be much different than each other. You are micro-analyzing the minutia of each offering, but that's not really the issue. Those things won't matter if your business crushes it.


 i feel like it would matter when those things add up and start tearing at ur profit 


If banking fees cut into your profit, your profit isn't big enough.


 i just think we view it different bc I'm a firm believer it cutting cost and minimize it 

Quote from @Lateefah Mathews:

@Kylie A. How's it going! Look, if you are looking for a bank with "no foreign wire fees" thats quite a stretch and I'd advise tossing that idea out as it will keep you on the sidelines. 

With that said, choosing your bank based on customer service relationships and business credit products should be a priority. if you’re looking for a bank that offers great service and lower wire fees, I’d suggest starting with NFCU. The credit unions tend to have lower fees and offer solid business products. Plus, they’re known for personalized service. Yes you can get in without "military" involvement. 

Next up, Wells Fargo is a solid option for building a relationship with a bank that doesn’t treat you like a number. They also offer solid business credit products and their new CC offers 0% interest. Chase also has good CCs at 0% interest also, but you’ll need to meet their 5/24 rule for approvals. Should you decide to shift your requirement focus the above suggestions would be a good place to start.


 no i just meant like wire fees in general but yeah i might just go with amex and see how it goes first

Quote from @Jonathan Greene:

The best bank is the one that you will use. You are procrastinating on the smallest of things which means you may lack the confidence to do what you are planning to do. Chase or B of A or any bank isn't going to be much different than each other. You are micro-analyzing the minutia of each offering, but that's not really the issue. Those things won't matter if your business crushes it.


 i feel like it would matter when those things add up and start tearing at ur profit 

I’ve compared Chase, Bank of America, and Amex but I’m still feeling a bit lost. Here are my main concerns:

  1. Wire Transfers: Outgoing wire transfers are a big part of my business. I noticed that Chase and Bank of America charge fees for wires unless you meet specific criteria. For Chase, they seem to have the edge in this category, but I don’t like their business credit card options.
  2. Business Credit Cards: I prefer to keep all my accounts (personal and business) in one place, but the options are limited. Bank of America’s business credit cards seem better, but I’d need to hit their Preferred Rewards status to reduce fees, which might be challenging.
  3. Amex: I like Amex’s reputation and services, but their outgoing wire fees are higher, which is a downside given how many wires I send.

My ideal solution would be a business account with minimal wire transfer fees (especially outgoing wires) and a solid business credit card option, preferably with no foreign transaction fees.

What would you recommend for someone like me who does a lot of outgoing wires and occasional foreign transactions?

Post: Looking for some wholesale help in Oregon

Kylie A.Posted
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did u ever wholesale in oregon?

Post: Fear Of Success & Failure

Kylie A.Posted
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Quote from @Nathan Gesner:
Quote from @Kylie A.:

I suspect part of this is due to the overwhelming amount of information you are exposed to. Everyone talks about their success, especially the young YouTubers. They bought 72 houses in six months at the age of 23 and now drive their Lamborghini to their castle where they party with P-Diddy and drink champagne all day. How can you possibly match that?

Read some books. Network with other investors. You will quickly learn that real estate investing is simple. Save money, buy a house, rent it out, rinse, and repeat. You could try to buy a bunch of houses quickly, or you can buy one house every 5-10 years and still build some really good wealth.

I highly reading The Small and Mighty Real Estate Investor from Chad Carson. He has a website to get an idea of what he's like. Listen to The David Greene Podcast on YouTube or Spotify or Apple. He's a solid teacher that talks about the good and bad of investing.


 Party with diddy haha yah I do see a lot of YouTubers talk about the money they make

Post: Fear Of Success & Failure

Kylie A.Posted
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Quote from @Julia Lyrberg:

You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way—success and the pressure to achieve it can bring a lot of anxiety, especially when you’re just starting out. The fact that you’re aware of it and taking small steps is huge! A lot of people deal with the same fear of taking the leap. Try focusing on one small, manageable task at a time, like researching one specific part of wholesaling, so it doesn’t feel overwhelming. Consistency comes with time, and you’ll get there.


 Thank u 

Post: Fear Of Success & Failure

Kylie A.Posted
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Quote from @Jonathan Greene:

It's rational to be scared of success when you are so young and don't know the steps to take to get there. First, you have to know there are a lot of different steps and often they are down a wrong path, this is learning. Second, you need to surround yourself with others who want the same thing. You need to go to real estate investor meetups and make friends. I bet you don't have any friends who want to do this at your age so when you tell people about your dreams they say it's crazy. It's not, but you have a long way to go.

At 23, you should be working as much as possible to set the financial foundation for yourself. You need people though to get the confidence to do it, not money.


Thanks! I'll definitely keep that in mind. You're right; it also seems like a lot of people have stopped dreaming and just stick to living paycheck to paycheck. I don’t want that for myself; I want to break free from the rat race 

Post: Fear Of Success & Failure

Kylie A.Posted
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I’m looking for advice or opinions from others who have struggled with this or have felt like this. I really want to be successful, but whenever I try to do anything related to my career—like investing or researching, especially in wholesaling—I get hit with a wave of anxiety. I explain this to people, but they often don’t understand. Many think it’s strange to be scared of success, or they make fun of me for it, and I don’t understand it myself.

I genuinely want to be rich and financially free; part of me believes I can do it, but deep down, my mind or whatever doesn’t. It could be my self-hatred, maybe. It has been hard for me. I’m 23 now, and I have a hard time with consistency. I’ve been slowly integrating tasks so it’s not so overwhelming. Is there anyone else out there who has dealt with this and is successful?