Okay... I kinda skim throught your guys conversation above.
My 2 cents.... Vivienne, I think what Tom is trying to say here is that you are basically not accepting responsiblities for your own actions. Yes, wall street sucked, and yes, the rules and regulation of the banks sucks by raising your interest rates and what not... but look at it from this point of view.
You agreed to their terms when you decided to use their money/loan/business.... They make the rules to benefit them, not you.
I agree that you are trying to make yourself the victim here, which I dont believe that is the case. I think its more like a few bad investment decisions, but thats okay!
Be responsible, and if you made your decision, you made your decisions. Thats that.
I too made mistakes and is currently going through foreclosure proceedings, but I dont blame anyone else.
(Of course, I truely did have hardship issues, mom and child passed away less then a month apart). I would love for the bank to just reduce my principle to where I can manage, but they refuse and rather sell my property on a short sale for 100k less then what Im willing to offer, but you know what, its their decision.
In regards to you flipping the reduce principle value, if its not illegal, more power to you! i just dont understand if your assets and whatever is that high... why would you consider renting?
Anyways, can you note me the atty / loan modification company info you used, maybe he/she can help me out in my situation.
Best of luck to all! = )