I'm in a slightly different position, but yet not really. Let me explain. I currently don't hold any real estate investements, but I started my own handyman business 4 months ago on the side of my normal full time job in pursuit of capital for the purpose of investing in real estate. So yes I do have the same problems that I juggle daily.
-My wife and I have agreed that we both get 3 days a week to pursue things of interest such as the football team I play on and my business. So there are 3 days a week where I'm able to work 5 to 6 hours on my business without complaints. The other 4 days are family related.
-I find myself at working thinking more about my side business aspirations and writing on forums.
-Hearing negative comments from broke people on how you cannot get ahead and that you must come from wealthy family to get a head.
-To hear from friends that I'm cheap and should spend money on cars, bigger houses, etc... The problem is that I'm to wise for that and we put over 15% of our income into financial investments such as 401k's, Roth's and Mutual funds.
*What helps me get through all of this is my wife, she is very understanding and frugal which helps in us pursuing our goals to become financially independent and wealthy making our money work for us.