Originally posted by @Alexander Bacon:
@Lenny Smith The idea that you are trying to achieve financial independence is a costly idea in terms of time and effort which many people seem to overlook. To be blunt, if you can not figure out how to manage your time to begin this process, you will not make it. I work 84 hours a week at the moment, have a wife and two kids, and am beginning to invest in real estate on the side. I learned everything about the stock market on my own and am doing my best on the real estate side right now (with help from others on this site). My circumstances are not normal and I fully understand that but not having enough time is a complete cop out. If you watch tv, netflix, play video etc, you have time. If you spend time on social media, you have time. If you sleep more than 6 hours, you have time. It is all about time management and if you don't have the courage, willpower, and time management skills to simply begin at this point in your life, you will not magically have the grit to succeed just because you quit your job. You can do this so do not doubt yourself. But you need to push yourself right now given the current circumstances to mold yourself into someone who is a time management expert and someone who will stop at nothing. Quitting your job and using the "not enough time" excuse is a simple cop out that everyone uses on a daily basis but I guarantee it is not a question about time but it is a question about priorities.
Well. I must say, this frustrated me. I have been trying to live my life for the past two years in a way that I can look back and say I couldn't have done anything more than what I did. I'm sure there is something I could have done in hindsight, but not that I saw or could see at the time. With that said, I have seriously tried to not waste a minute. For example, for this year, I was working nights everyday with two days off per week. I would wake up each morning at 6 am, I get to bed at 11-12 so that is 7-8 hours of sleep. I would study until I had to go to work, and then I would work until a little after 10. On my two days off, I would wake up maybe a bit later to catch up on sleep so about 8 or 9 at the latest. I was ALWAYS tired. No matter what. I felt completely burnt out 24/7. You say 6 hours of sleep? There is just absolutely no way. Maybe it works for you, but I can't do that. And it isn't that I don't want to do that, or couldn't physically do it, I could force myself but if I am already barely absorbing what I am studying because I am always exhausted then getting less sleep would just make it worse. Anyways, on my two days off, I had them set up to land on days where I usually had a quiz/exam the day I went back to work so I could study on/off for two days. In between studying for tests I would do other school work, take care of things around the house and other things that need to be done, and if I had time and the mental energy I would read a book or watch tv.
I don't have social media whatsoever. I will admit though, I have often thought that I might have an issue with overthinking things that don't matter which results in me being so tired. Problem is I don't know how to fix this. I can manage it quite well when I am in control of my life and my environment. But when I was working I would often bring stuff home with me that I really didn't need to. I admit that I have a lot of trouble separating myself from things sometimes and this definitely effects my focus and efficiency.
But I really feel like I have been using all of my time as best as I could. I used to have some problems years back and being lazy and sitting around consuming stupid stuff makes me feel like crap. The only time my tv has been on since I have been laid off is at night for noise while I sleep. I've been doing nothing but waking up, checking off lists, and trying to get as much as I can packed into this time that I have before I have to work again. This is another reason that I feel in my gut(which could be wrong, yes) that having more time could help me figure things out, I've never valued every minute of the day as much as I do now. It might not sound that way to you, but hey, that's alright. Until being laid off, I didn't have any priorities besides school and work. Whether it was a cop out or I really didn't have time, I never could just sit at my computer researching different paths to take or getting on sites like these and asking people wiser than me for advice. Anyways, I still appreciate your reply. It was motivating, and I don't totally disagree, I know I can always do and be better. Thank you.