Hi fellow BPers!
I know you're probably confused why I put this post in the success stories category. Hear me out friends! This is a HUGE personal success to me.
I just wanted to share the biggest life-changing (some call it inspiring) decision I've made in my (almost) 24 years of life. I decided to quit my job last week on 3/4 after a year at a consulting company. It will be a long story so please be warned!
Let me rewind a little bit so that you could get some context to help you better understand where I am right now and why I did what I did. I started my full time job as an consulting analyst over a year ago in February 2014. At the time, I thought it was one of the best things that had happened to me. I could not be happier with my colleagues, my bosses, and the salary! Well... The excitement lasted for about...3 months. Three months into the job, I pretty much knew it was not for me. I'm not just referring to the job, I'm talking about the concept of working for others and more importantly the idea of trading my time simply for money was not doing well for me (mentally). I remember coming home from work one day being completely exhausted with dissatisfaction, I told my father it wasn't working and that I needed an alternative. I told him I wanted to be in real estate! Being the caring father he was, my father told me to give this job a chance and warned me about all the cons in the real estate business. He told me not to trade security for uncertainty, so I listened to him.
Fast forward to about a year later, I found myself growing sicker of my job and more passionate about real estate. I networked, networked and networked some more to get me the best resources to jump start my career. I passed my exam, got my license and affiliated with Coldwell Banker all in a week. I went out and and put my hustling to work. Initially I thought that I should juggle between two jobs until I could get my real estate business to a steady place. After all I still need my full-time income to support my family because unfortunately you don't make money right away in real estate. It does take a while and those of you who have been broke (like myself), a while seems like an eternity! Here's a rule in life, if it seems too good to be true, it is probably too good to be true! I overestimated myself thinking that I could focus on both jobs. However I find myself being completely 100% consumed with real estate pretty much every waking second. I have not been able to focus at work and my productivity at work is....let's just say, non-existent. To be fair to my company and to keep my mental being in check, I decided to do the inevitable.
On March 4, 2015, I came to work with a very heavy heart (partly because of caffeine overdose). I knew I was doing it for the best but I couldn't overcome my nervousness. How could I not be nervous? This is a life-changing decision! It didn't help when my boss did not get in until noon. My heart was pretty much racing with my thoughts the entire morning. I grabbed my boss as soon as he appeared. Below is my best account of how our conversation went, well the bulk of it. The whole conversation was too long to recall.
Myself = V ; My boss = R
5 minutes of *Weather talk, small life talk, work talk*
V: "Well I just wanted to catch up since we haven't talked in a while. As you might have heard, I'm in real estate now."
R: "yeah what's up with that?"
V: "To be honest, it's been my passion and it's what I enjoy doing. I think I'm going to focus 100% of my time in real estate."
R: "No, no, no, no, no" (5 times - frowning and shaking his head)
V: "R, listen. I've slept on this for almost a year. This is not working for me anymore. I can't focus at work. All I could think about is real estate. It's not fair for you and it's not healthy for me."
R: "Talk to me, what makes you think it's not working for you?" (concerned face)
V: "Just the fact that I'm not performing to the best of my ability. I feel very guilty for even being here. I just completely lost focus and interest in this job. I'm sorry to say that but that's how I feel."
R: "Listen, you've been a hustler since day one. Why can't you juggle both jobs and wait for the right time to make your decision? I guess what I'm saying is, what makes you think you have to make the decision today?"
V: "Yes I could do both job, but I'll just be average in both. I don't want to be average. I want to be great, and be great at something I'm passionate about."
R: "Do you think we hire average here? I think you don't give yourself enough credit."
V: "Listen, I could stay for the income, but that's not who I am. If I'm going to do something, I don't ever want to half *** it. I have not been engaged and productive at work lately because my mind is consumed with real estate. I feel very guilty for being here and I would rather leave now before it gets to me."
R: "But why do you have to do this now? Why don't you wait until you gain some traction in real estate? Listen, I want the best for you and want you to be happy. Talk to me."
V: "R, I really appreciate you looking out for me, but I know I'm going to be successful in this business. I just need time and I'm not getting that working here. I have a big goal for my first year and..."
R: "I know you'll be successful at whatever you do. What is your goal? How are you compensated?" (Here goes R playing his money card)
V: "My goal for my first year is to earn as much as what I currently earn at this job"
R: "Which is about to increase because you're getting a pay increase plus if everything goes right, you'll be getting a mid-year promotion and another huge increase *took out his calculator*, so by the end of this year, you could be making close to $100,000."
V: "Please don't. I've made up my mind. I've learned so much here but it's time for me to really follow my passion."
Sure enough an hour later, I did get the announcement that I got a raise. I am very happy to say that I felt nothing! The money did not convince me and I have never been more relieved and happier with my decision. There is a difference between being poor and being broke. Being broke is only temporary but being poor is eternal. The last thing you want to do is depriving yourself of doing what you love because I don't care how much money you have, you'll still be poor!
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It has been a week since then and GUESS WHAT guys? I just got 2 listings this week alone! I am super excited for the future. There you have it, this is my very first success story in real estate! THERE WILL BE MORE TO COME!
