@Theresa Harris
We heavily considered rehoming our dog but do not have the heart to do it. There is nobody that can take him for the time that we need. He is an 8 year old rescue that we got 2 years ago. He has a lot of special needs and we don't feel right rehoming him because we feel he has already experienced enough trauma.
My partner's income is very new. I have been, for the most part, supporting us both for about 3 years. I anticipate that his new stable employment will allow me to accelerate my savings rate. Right now, I'm able to save about $600 per month while covering all living expenses and my debt payments. We spend about $300-400 every two weeks on variable expenses (food, gas, household items, etc.) So I don't feel like we are living an extravagant lifestyle.
Debt is definitely a large burden for me though. I'm kind of kicking myself now because I was funneling an extra $600-800 per month towards debt instead of saving. And now we need that cash to secure a place to live.
The only thing that keeps me hopeful is the fact that I have not accrued any additional debt in the past 2 years after being extremely financially irresponsible in my early 20s.
My biggest fear is that a mortgage will be another financial mistake. But I have also been looking into house hacking for the past 1.5 years. I just thought I had more time to save and get our financial house in order before making the jump. But now I have to consider the pros and cons of moving into another, more expensive rental or buying.
Also, it seems as though our neighbors just generally would prefer that we move after the trauma of the incident. They have been gracious enough to tell us there is no "rush". But on the other hand, they have told us that they "would appreciate us finding another place to live". That's Minnesota nice for saying "we don't want you to live here anymore and our mom is your landlord so good luck."