Hi, I'm a doctor, and I'm new to finance/house hacking. I am a single mom but have been working hard to become familiar with this new world, and my long-term goal is to buy more rental properties over the next 10 years. I live fairly frugally, and my student loans from med school are low as I qualified for lots of scholarships and have a great repayment plan. I work for a non-profit and will have loans forgiven in 10 years with very small monthly payments.
I currently own two properties in Utah but just finished getting divorced. We are required to sell one of the properties (we rented it out and used it as a passive income), and I can either sell or refinance the current home I live in. I'm wondering about my best options, so I'm turning to this forum for some opinions.
Once the rental home is sold, my half of the proceeds will be roughly $113,000 (this is after closing costs and taxes and is an estimation based on the current market value). My question is, what should I do with the second home that I currently live in? I am obligated to remove my ex from the mortgage by refinancing or selling the house by next July. (I called the bank, and even though I have a great job and can pay for the current mortgage very well, they require that I refinance to remove him). I'm pretty bummed about this as I currently have a 3% interest rate on the home. It is also a house hack, and I live upstairs with my kids and rent out the basement apartment. If I refinance, my rate would jump to around 6.5/7%, increasing my mortgage from 2,500/mo to 3,500/mo, give or take. I currently rent the basement for $1,000/mo, so my current obligation is $1,500/mo. If I refinance, I can wait for a few months to see if the rates go down, but that would mean that each mortgage payment I make would benefit my ex as he gets half the equity in the home at the time of selling or refinancing based on an appraisal. I would prefer if my money isn't used to his benefit as he still owes me a lot. If I were to refinance he also wouldn't be obligated to help with future closing costs on the home. My options are:
-Refinance now and foot the extra bill and stay in this current home (I would be footing all future closing costs) and pour most of the money earned from the other sold home into the one I currently live in.
-Sell the home now and only have to pay for 1/2 closing costs. I could then use my proceeds and buy a new house hack in the area.
-Buy a third home now (I would look for another house hack) (with money earned from the sold rental home) and rent out the entire home I currently live in and refinance now or next July (later would keep my mortgage lower with my 3% rate, but would mean that my ex would profit for a year off my payments and would never have to help with future closing costs). If I chose this option, I could refinance now and earn roughly 1,500/mo off the home being rented or 2,500/mo until I either sold or refinanced next year. I would end up paying about 500K more in the loan with this new interest rate, unfortunately.
If I decided to keep the home I live in, I would pay my ex based on a current appraisal from the rental home proceeds. I estimated that my net proceeds after doing this would be roughly $66K. But if I account for sunk closing costs I would actually only net 16K.
So my main questions are: Should I sell my current home now or in a year? Should I refinance it now or in a year? And if I keep the home, should I buy a new home to live in and rent out the entire home for a profit?
Sorry this is all so complicated!
