HaHa, thanks everybody (still gotta learn how to tag :-P)! I totally agree with all of your comments. I wish I coulda slipped away and became successful before they noticed we moved 2000 mi away, but that isn't reality. I actually have lived in NYC for 2 years (in 2008-09 when we were hit hard by the recession and a huge snow storm at the same time). When I was in NYC, I spent a few months in a homeless shelter surrounded by violence, pain, mental illness, theft and deplorable living conditions everywhere you turned. I was the preppy lil white girl that they thought worked there, even though I was homeless and broken like the rest of the 200 women there. So, moving to a sleepy little town in MI doesn't scare me in the slightest. I am currently working with lenders who specialize in FHA/203k loans and hope to pick up a 3 or 4 plex and house hack into our starter home by July and go from there. My husband sees my vision of success and thats what truly matters. And I love the acronyms and quotes you guys have posted!!