This thread hits home for me, because before I joined Bigger Pockets, I too had "lofty goals". I decided to spend six months reading and researching as much possible on markets and strategies to determine the best way to get to my monthly goal given my income, cash on hand and credit score.
After being on here for awhile, I've noticed distinct investor camps, the first I'll call long-term retirement investors. Those that either purchase a property once a year, or save to buy each property in cash, within the intent of either cashing out on appreciation in the distant future or accumulating a few thousand in cash flow to bulk up retirement income.
The second camp, I'll call cash-flow now, damnit, investors. These folks have much shorter time frames for achieving their goals and tend to think out-of-the box (@Brandon Hicks is an example) or have a bunch of creative strategies up their sleeves (and are usually questioned as to their validity) or venturing into "rougher" territory.
Those that fall into the second camp tend to get cornered and interrogated an awful lot. So I can see a lot of newbie investors getting scared off from doing anything outside of mainstream real estate investing. The irony is that it reminds me of when I started an online retail business a few years ago and got so much flack from people that I should just focus on my W2 job and that anything online is either too hard or too shady. The similarities here are more than tangential. However, that online business gave me a nest egg in which to start my RE business. So I think risk is necessary and detaching from the mainstream important to financial success.
Anyway, sorry if I've really hijacked this thread, but there are some days, after reading a bunch of posts, I feel like going back to the online world or just dump some cash into REIT and wait from my Medicare to kick in (shoot me now). And then there are days when I research the financing end of my plan (which apparently is EVERYBODY's issue), and find what seems to be good solutions to the DTI issue (Fannie Mae allows up to 75% of rental income to count), property seasoning (some lenders just a need a month, some 90 days, and these are from lenders here on the forum and all lenders apparently will count rental income after two years) 10 property limits (if married, your spouse can take on another 10. After a total of 20, apparently portfolio lenders can do a blanket loan and bring your actual mortgage back to one, thereby starting the process again.) And then there's the world of commercial finance, which I'm still learning and don't feel confident to comment on.
Obviously, there are some factors you can't get around - some cash on hand for the HML (rehab acquisition) some more cash on hand for reserves and decent credit score (for the refi) and good property management and through knowledge of your market (for the rental)
So, my obvious question is, what's the problem with rehab, rent and refi? Because threads like these are so utterly demoralizing. Notice that I didn't detail my goals. It's been crushed enough already, unbeknownst to all.
Anyway, can @Jerry Padilla and @Bob Green , comment please on the lending end. I think it'll help elevate the conversation.