This post relates closely to what I just went through while buying a small vacation home. For sale by owner, so we used a lawyer friend to make sure we were covered in our purchase agreement, etc. since the seller was the type that basically wanted to sell the house on little more than a handshake. I did all the legwork on paperwork to be used for closing. And what I contracted out to my lawyer I later realized I could've found or did find on my own. I also fixed spelling errors and typos in his legal drafts. So you can imagine my surprise when it was nearly all said and done to receive his bill in the mail showcasing all our email correspondence. Honestly, it never occurred to me that I would receive such an itemized bill or I wouldn't have been so loose and free in my emails to him.
THEN, I got a 2nd bill because he had emailed after some time had passed since our last exchange regarding the Purchase Agreement offering to look at anything else I had before closing...to which he and I went back and forth on because, again, I'm loose and free with my email chatter. If I had known up front how our exchanges would be billed I might have drafted the PA myself and done some of the title groundwork myself (he was just a middle man on that - he and title company found same info I found and had access to).
So far I've paid the first bill because he did perform the service that I had requested. And it was a lesson learned. But I can't bring myself to pay the smaller 2nd bill on the notion that I was led into the conversation that created the charges. I will probably end up paying it, or a portion of it, after speaking with him and his office about the nature of the bill and my reaction to it...and how this might affect our future business transactions.
I learned valuable lessons during the closing process of the cheap little house we bought. So my lessons weren't outrageously expensive but it was still cash that could've stayed in my pocket.
Next time I reach for a property I will approach some of the research, legal documents and legal services as a more seasoned pro.