@Kevin Keene
Welcome to BP! It's always nice to see someone new from CT on the site (and close too!) Thanks for your service as well. I'm a navy veteran myself. Retired a few years back.
I recently decided to get my RE license a few months back and I don't regret it. While disclosure is important like you mentioned, I think the pros outweigh the cons. You have access to the MLS, commission savings and a network of other agents you can use to send investors your way. The reciprocity issue for licensing varies by state. Check out this link for reciprocity agreements with CT http://www.ct.gov/dcp/cwp/view.asp?q=381860 So it depends on where you ultimately end up.
In my opinion investing in real estate is not a race. It's important to do your due diligence and understand the market your looking to invest in. I've been looking at properties in the New London county area for almost a year now and still haven't purchased anything yet. My initial approach was to flip but I've now shifted into a buy and hold strategy. You'll find quite few properties out there that are well over 100 years old and in very poor condition. Lots of structural damage too which is extremely expensive to fix. This drove me to the buy and hold approach. The key is to stay focused on one strategy and avoid the shiny objects!
You might want to consider attending a REIA meeting to network. Unfortunately the closest one is in the Hartford area. I've thought about trying to get a meet up started in this area but have not been able to get enough interest. Maybe I should try it again though.
Anyway please feel free to reach out anytime.
Jim