@Scott Hollister
Thank you so much for taking the time to respond to my post. I agree with everything you said and really appreciate the motivation bump. I am just starting out in the business, and am finding that there is a steep learning curve--luckily I haven't quit my day job and can deal with these issues without losing much sleep.
Though the process is grueling and arduous at times, I find it to be fun. Also, if it was easy everyone would be doing it and therefore there would be no money to be made.
I completely understand the banks point of view--does not mean I agree with it though. Mostly, I find it difficult to understand why it would take me less than 5 days to take out a $100k personal loan with no collateral than to take out the same loan backed by a home worth $190k. But hey, I am still new at this.
My wife and I do have separate bank accounts. In addition, the bank is looking at my business account and not my personal.
I plan to take your advice and continue to search for a lender willing to fund this deal. It was not easy to find Lima One to fund the first one, I am now realizing this may be the case moving forward.