Well, I'm not able to change it now. It's a triplex but his unit is the only one that's not under a lease and we have to move in since we have a conv. loan with 5% down.
I guess this seller has been burned by other potential buyers on this place and hasn't been willing to take on any risk, which has been very frustrating. Also, the market here is really hot and most places are selling at asking price or more (and not even good deals in my opinion). This is currently the best deal on the market, even including 30k in potential repairs I've budgeted in.
Obviously some people may not agree and I admit I'm pretty new, but I've ran the numbers over and over again, even setting aside different amounts for potential repairs and expenses, and this is still the best cash flowing multi-family on the market (that's within our price range).
Doubling the earnest money was fine by me, but I wasn't willing to make it non-refundable. And after I thought that the security deposit would help offset the cost of repairing that unit, at least a little bit. It may not be a whole lot in the grand scheme of things, but it's still $500. I may have made a mistake and should have probably made him gone by closing, but it's too late now. We shall see how easily he leaves. He did mention to us that the rent is getting too high for him and he will probably have to look for a new place.