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@Nick Broce:
Thanks for the replies everyone. The house hack seems to be pretty popular, I'll definitely look more into it.
@Caleb Heimsoth Wow, 10 months seems pretty impressive. What loan did you go for?
@Jim K. Well I spent a suitable amount of time after high school agonizing over what I would do, went to a community college for a year but dropped out when I made this plan. I've always hated being behind others, so I got really frustrated that I wasn't already starting whatever it was I'd end up doing. Then I moved to a 6 br house owned by a 23 year old man who lived there and rented to 6 or 7 college/grad students. And that's where the seed was planted I suppose. I've always been a planner, and I've always been good with money thanks to my parents (they gave me an allowance based off of how often I completed my chores, and had me use that money for buying clothes, shoes, or any extra things for myself). So it came naturally
OK, Nick, you just told me how you got interested in real estate. Someone showed you how a young guy could make money with a rooming house. The how of it is good information to know, but that's not what I asked. WHY? Why do you want this?
The closest you got was "I've always hated being behind others."
So personal ego is a big part of it. Do you have a better reason to risk everything in real estate to make a lot of money other than keeping up with the Joneses? And if you dislike "being behind others," how do you feel about failure? What about repeated failure, failing OVER and OVER and OVER again and having your family pity you for a hopeless dreamer, and your friends quietly desert you because you're a perennial charity case, and people on the street sneer at you because the stink of personal failure is on you as surely as it is on an addict sleeping in a cardboard box in an alley?
Because sooner or later, it's going to happen to you, Nick. Ivanka Trump tells a story about her father, in the middle of one of his periodic crashes and in deep debt, pointing to a homeless guy on the streets of NY and telling her that the homeless guy was richer than he was. A lot of people miss the point about this story. Sure, it's a mean shot at a homeless guy with no education, no resources, no way out of his situation. Sure, it sounds like cheap self pity. But it's not like Donald Trump said this to an acquaintance on the street. He was talking to his daughter, the one he had accurately assessed to have the most brains in his family. This is what he, in his moment of failure and misery, chose to teach his child as memorably as he could, asked his child to remember about financial success and failure.
So I'm asking you again, Nick, and if you tell me again that you want to do this because you want to feel just a bit better than the people around you, I'm going to laugh at my computer screen. Everybody feels that way.
There's a woman I see on my way to work many mornings driving a late-model Ford Mustang convertible out of the makeshift gravel parking lot of a decrepit 1-family house in a poor part of town. She ALWAYS wear sunglasses, even at dawn in the rain with the top up. That swiftly depreciating car is how she feels she manages to feel a bit better than the people around her.
I know a guy who brought back a woman from the old country who's thirteen years younger than he is to marry her here. They're on their third child together, and are close to penniless. He tells me he did it because he needed to make sure that when he told his wife to do something, she would so it. That's how he feels better about himself.
The children of very affluent parents are usually, by definition, in a much better financial position than most kids. If money equaled happiness in an uncomplicated balanced equation, then why do they so often take just a whole pharmacy worth of very expensive drugs just to feel better about themselves and escape their reality?
So, come on, Nick. Give us a WHY. Articulate it to yourself, look at it, and decide if it's important enough to you.