@Joseph Gonnella
Oh sure, that sounds great, but in reality, what the forums get in the end are an avalanche of newbies, all asking the same four questions. And behind those those questions there really is only one question: "Will someone here mentor me for free? PLEEEEAAAAASSSSSEEEEEE?"
The gurus never tell you that searching through the smoke and the mirrors in the game, extending yourself very uncomfortably into the unknown, being willing to invest and possibly waste your time searching for answers, actually building meaningful relationships, all of that's is a very big part, if not the biggest part, of winning in real estate.
When Hannibal was told it was impossible to get his elephants over the Alps to invade Roman territory from the north, he responded with the following:
"Aut inveniam viam aut faciam"
I WILL FIND A WAY OR MAKE ONE.
That's the attitude we need here. Not lazy grifters who ask for guidance and direction before they lift a finger to help themselves (which is the norm here, sad to say). Not entitled man-children who pout and pout when you call them on their BS. And most especially, not people looking for "a good start" in real estate.
Really, nobody who every gets anywhere in real estate ever had "a good start." You get in, you take a beating sooner or later, usually sooner, and then you get back up and go at it again. Until then, no one in this business is going to see you as anything other than someone to ignore or, worse, take advantage of. Sorry, just like everything else, everywhere else, sure, you're expected to pay your damned dues. And those dues are really financially expensive and even more expensive in terms of blood, sweat, tears, toil AND TIME.
You want a head start over the unwashed and a short cut to success (which is really what most people want)? Go to the gurus. Pay your money. Take your chances. Trust them. Sure, it's gonna be great.
So yeah, the entry process into real estate is overwhelming. Yeah, it's uncomfortable. It should be. So when you come to the forums and talk to people who have been there and done that, come correct. Don't come with your hand out and your nose up. You're the new kid. You ain't all that.