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All Forum Posts by: Jessica Eden

Jessica Eden has started 1 posts and replied 7 times.

Post: Discouraged, intending to become first time house hacking

Jessica EdenPosted
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Quote from @Anthony Swain:

Hey @Jessica Eden,

Here to provide you support and encouragement!

It takes courage to be so open and transparent. Do not be ashamed for your honest work, but your income doesn't have to be your limiting factor. I'd encourage you to keep exploring other income ideas. As @Kevin Sobilo pointed out, maybe an additional career in real estate could increase your income while giving you applicable real estate knowledge. It doesn't have to be full time either. You can build that career around your salon business if need be.

I would potentially put a pause on the real estate investing, because it can be very capital intensive and I would not want you to be in a difficult situation immediately on your first investment. 

During this time, you can focus on your own personal growth, increasing income/savings rate, and adding to your down payment/investment fund. 

@Sarita Scherpereel makes a valuable point. Maybe you can meet with a lender to go over your financial position and what you can do to position yourself to qualify for the type of house hack you desire.

Jessica, no one will believe in you more than you. Build that confidence and faith in yourself. You can do this! 

Take things one step at a time and surround yourself with the people you aspire to be like. They will help push you in the direction you want to go. 

Good luck with everything! Drop in again and let us know how you are doing :)


 This was incredibly encouraging to read. I appreciate so much your kind words!

I actually filled out an application to check out potential part time work with KW! My friend works for them as well, so meeting with her this week to hear about her experience. I think this could be a great avenue as well. I've searched and searched for side gigs like serving, coffee shops etc. However, I think I could do more, learn more, and gain more from something like this. Plus, it's something I'm interesting in learning more about!

Post: Discouraged, intending to become first time house hacking

Jessica EdenPosted
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Quote from @Alecia Loveless:

@Kevin Sobilo I’ve done something similar with a restaurant where I was buying $50 gift certificates for $45 and then charged my B&B guests more. This was about 25 years ago and we were selling close to $20,000/year in these certificates.

It was a win/win because with my guests going to dinner with a $50 gift certificate they felt like they were getting their meal paid for but the owner of the restaurant once told me that my average $50 gift certificate holder would spend a minimum of $75 while they were there on extras like appetizers and alcohol purchases that were typically big mark up items for him.


  Thats actually super interesting! My salon suite is a very small room, but I have considered trying to find an office space that has more space for less money to host events and such as well.I'll keep this gift certificate idea in mind as well!

Post: Discouraged, intending to become first time house hacking

Jessica EdenPosted
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Quote from @Sarita Scherpereel:

Hi @Jessica Eden Have you spoken to a leader about this yet? It can be a difficult conversation but that will provide you with real and transparent advice that people on BP can't really give. Of course, we can be encouraging. But a lender will let you know how far away your dreams might be. There are a lot of wonderful lenders that offer first time buyer grants too! So definitely shop around and don't just take one persons word for the full picture of what is out there for you. 

It took me a few years to buy after becoming a realtor. I didn't come from money so know one really explain to me how to put this together for myself. Slowly I was able to put myself on a better financial track to buy. 

Just remember there are people out there that are starting out further behind you and have less than you that will buy one day. It's possible for everyone...if YOU make it happen. 


 Thank you so much for saying this! My parents struggled really hard (and still do) financially so my sister and I are trying to really break out of that mold as adults. 

Can I ask what kept you from purchasing yourself for so long? Was it just building wealther and lowering debt first?

Post: Discouraged, intending to become first time house hacking

Jessica EdenPosted
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Quote from @Alan Asriants:

If you love your business, double down. Read more books, and just keep moving forward, your passion will drive you and your income! 

Good luck


 Thank you for this encouragement! It feels like a never ending battle with business knowledge, courses, books etc but sometimes small things do make a big difference!

Post: Discouraged, intending to become first time house hacking

Jessica EdenPosted
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Quote from @Kevin Sobilo:
Quote from @Jessica Eden:
Quote from @Kevin Sobilo:

@Jessica Eden, take a step back for a second. Here are a few things to consider:

1. If you barely have income enough to rent, even with a house hack you don't sound like you have the resources to cope when things don't go well. If you get a bad tenant you don't want that to cause you to lose your house!

2. Why do you have $60k in student loan debt but only earn entry level wages? What did you study? Did you graduate? What kind of work are you doing now (sounds like your own business)?

3. If your schedule allows, why not consider becoming a real estate agent as a side hustle. Many if not most real estate agents do it as a side job not their main income. It's also a good way to learn a lot before you jump into investing plus be able to increase that income.

4. What market are you in? The income your talking about might work in some markets but in others might not be suitable for trying to buy right now.

5. Were you planning to buy a single family and take on roommates or a small multifamily and rent out the other apartments? 


 I've certainly considered going into real estate as a side hustle as well! I've tried to secure a second job, but the job market here is really tough and many of my friends have lost their jobs and been searching for up to a year in several different career fields (CO). I certainly feels really embarassing to be 35, and 15 years into my career and making entry level wages. The unfortunate reality is that the national average is around 28k for hairstylists.

I own my own salon suite, and believe it or not it's the most money I've ever made in my career so going back to a traditional salon is not an option I plan to pursue.

I was planning to so a small multifamily (duplex or triplex), live in one side and rent the other out (my boyfriend would also be paying me rent as well).


There is no shame in what you earn! Anybody doing honest work has nothing to be ashamed of about it. Here are a few more things to think about:

1. Most real estate showings are evenings and weekends. So, if your current business is during normal business hours that could work out schedule wise.

2. Agents are typically 1099 self employed contractors. So, they control their own schedule and time and work 100% on commission.

3. You could ABSOLUTELY leverage your salon business to gain real estate clients!!! Agents need to find their own business to make money. A BIG advantage to finding business is your SOI (Sphere Of Influence) aka people you know. You interact with clients at your spa all the time and have the opportunity to chat with them and make it known you are an agent and can help them.

I have known agents who got business because they were bartenders or whose husband is an accountant and got referred business from him. That can be a nice advantage breaking into the business.

4. I was happy to see you said your current bf would "pay you rent" as opposed to buying the house together. I would keep things formal like that with him unless you get married because things can go SERIOUSLY sideways.

I knew someone who bought a house with a bf who couldn't qualify to be on the loan as a borrower. So, she was ALONE on the loan, but he was on the deed with her. Then there was a domestic incident and HE got an order of protection against HER. So, SHE was excluded from the house! He refused to pay the mortgage. So, in order to avoid foreclosure she was paying a mortgage on a house she wasn't allowed to live in!

5. When you say a "salon suite" is that just like a stall within a larger salon space or what? I'm a guy, so I just don't know these things. The reason I ask is that I would look at how to maximize your business as well in OTHER WAYS besides just adding clients.

For example, maybe you make a deal with other providers to sell gift certificates for their businesses at a small discount to help them gain business. So, maybe you sell a $50 massage gift certificate for $45 but pay the massage business $40 for it and make $5 in the middle. The massage business might be willing to sell you those gift certificates at that discount to try to gain clientele.

Another thought would be to sell some products to your clients that you like.

Every business looks at how they can increase what a customer spends. That is why you see impulse purchase items at the cash register or where the old catch phrase "do you want fries with that?" comes from. They are trying to get add-on business. 


 Thanks so much for your kind words! It is certainly something we've discussed a lot as we intend to get married, but want to try and maximize any sort of benefits we may have single first. It seems like it doesn't matter too much whether or not we're married, but we'd like to put our money toward investing verses a big wedding I think anyway. Maybe our wedding someday  will be us closing on a house and having a big party there instead haha!

Post: Discouraged, intending to become first time house hacking

Jessica EdenPosted
  • New to Real Estate
  • Posts 7
  • Votes 8
Quote from @Kevin Sobilo:

@Jessica Eden, take a step back for a second. Here are a few things to consider:

1. If you barely have income enough to rent, even with a house hack you don't sound like you have the resources to cope when things don't go well. If you get a bad tenant you don't want that to cause you to lose your house!

2. Why do you have $60k in student loan debt but only earn entry level wages? What did you study? Did you graduate? What kind of work are you doing now (sounds like your own business)?

3. If your schedule allows, why not consider becoming a real estate agent as a side hustle. Many if not most real estate agents do it as a side job not their main income. It's also a good way to learn a lot before you jump into investing plus be able to increase that income.

4. What market are you in? The income your talking about might work in some markets but in others might not be suitable for trying to buy right now.

5. Were you planning to buy a single family and take on roommates or a small multifamily and rent out the other apartments? 


 I've certainly considered going into real estate as a side hustle as well! I've tried to secure a second job, but the job market here is really tough and many of my friends have lost their jobs and been searching for up to a year in several different career fields (CO). I certainly feels really embarassing to be 35, and 15 years into my career and making entry level wages. The unfortunate reality is that the national average is around 28k for hairstylists.

I own my own salon suite, and believe it or not it's the most money I've ever made in my career so going back to a traditional salon is not an option I plan to pursue.

I was planning to so a small multifamily (duplex or triplex), live in one side and rent the other out (my boyfriend would also be paying me rent as well).

Post: Discouraged, intending to become first time house hacking

Jessica EdenPosted
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Hey everyone!

I'm looking for a little encouragement/advice on my situation.

My goal is to house hack my first home purchase (because I simply don't see any other way to get into investing with my income). My issue is I have almost 60k in student loan debt, and my income fluctuates wildly between 22k-35k (most of which goes to my rent).

I'm feeling very discouraged that this can even be possible to purchase a home in my lifetime with my income being so low. I also don't have time/no one will hire me to pick up a second, part time job which makes in difficult to increase my income. My only option is to go all in on my business. 

I really want to get started on investing in real estate, but am I being completely unrealistic thinking this can happen? Any advise or encouraging words are appreciated.