@CJ M.
Having that much tied up into one property is a concern as well. Ideally we would find a place to BRRRR, but it seems really difficult to find because everyone is looking for SFH and MFH to BRRRR. The plan for this property would actually be to have a private investor pay a good portion of the down payment (someone we know is interested) and I would do all the work on it so we would be partners.
As for the ARV, I'm not really sure what it would be. There aren't many triplex's in the area and I'm not sure how I would find out what it could be worth with more modern upgrades. I tried to be conservative with my numbers so that's why I kept it like that. The $162,500 is also a few thousand over asking, again to be conservative with my numbers. It seems like the bones are good and some big ticket items are done such as the roof (5 years old) and updated wiring throughout. If I wanted to keep rents the same, I wouldn't have to do much in the units (painting and spackling which I would do). If I modernized the place a bit I think rents could increase to around $1,000 per unit and would be around $5,000-$10,000 per unit.
I feel like the investment would be a good one, but having money tied up and it being an older property has me worried. This also all happened so fast and I'm not sure I feel confident that I have everything together enough to be ready. I'm not sure if that is because I'm not quite ready yet or if it's more of me being scared about doing my first deal.
Anyways, I appreciate your response. You brought up some good points!