Thank you so much for all of your replies. Yes Josh, you are one hundred percent correct about "happy wife happy life." My wife is much sharper than me when it comes to business and numbers. She is definitely our family's biggest asset (she loves you for saying that too lol). She is a believer is the power of passive income and building wealth over time via rental properties. However, she is a skeptic on theories. She always asks for proof through facts and real life instances from experiences.
Pat, I think the market you are in (N.Y.) is priced similar to the market we are in (southern California). Your situation sounds like the one we aspire to be in. Did you purchase your property wholesale and or use creative financing? I am interested in using a combination of creative financing for an owner occupied investment property.
Theresa, My wife and I are considering a 4 plex (owner occupied) but property in southern even in the worst neighborhoods can be north of 500k and duplexes tend to be just under a million. Tri and four plexes even higher. We have 2 kids so quality of the area is important. This is why I am an advocate for renting because on a decent salary you can rent in an area you cannot afford. We have however had several rent increases in the last two years. This is why my wife thinks we need to make a change of some sort. You do have a point in regards to renting in retirement. However I hope to be in a situation like Pat by the time i retire (hopefully lol). Time for some creative financing I guess.