Ive tried looking for a private lender. About 2 years ago I sat down and contacted 20+ lenders on the list here on this site. I heard no from all of them. They were either fully lended or they didnt lend in my area.
I found a local real estate investor who was very interested in what I was doing. He liked my sustainable business plan and we both have electric vehicles. I thought we got along really well. The topic of politics and the fact that I am a registered Republican came up and he said "I dont do business with Republicans". He closed the binder that gave him and I spent an hour trying to save the deal, I didnt.
As for subdividing, I have thought about it, a lot. It would make obtaining funds easier, however by keeping the parcel one I will get a slight discount on property taxes. If I subdivide I would be assessed at full value for each subdivision. I also would prefer to eventually have one large loan on the entire parcel rather than 5 or 6 individual loans.