Hi Vahe,
Thank you for the detailed post. I totally understand the builders side of things and because of this I thought it may be hard to find. The only way I could see a builder taking on the risk is if they knew
that the home would still easily be worth what was put into it (if not more) in the unfortunate event of the buyer falling through with the deal. This way they could still sell the home to break even or potentially make a profit. It would be like the builder finding a property on their own and building the home to sell on the market for profit, but in this case the buyer is already lined up.
In my case I am trying to build a multi family that I will owner occupy. I am trying to build it on the strictest budget possible which may help the home be worth more if it indeed fell through (which it wouldn't with me!). I wouldn't even have a builder start anything until I have a financing approval in hand.
As far as your second point goes the issue I found with that is that for me to get a construction loan I believe I still have to put money down and why would I want to use my VA loan if I lose the advantage of putting 0 down.