Thanks for your input @Christopher Brainard. You bring up many valid points.
One of my goals by posting was to show other wholesalers that if they keep treating investors poorly, then they are having a negative impact on their clientele and peers. I also was curious to see if other folks had a similar experience.
The night before I got that message, I was thinking that there has been quite the influx of wholesalers in the area, and because of the negative experience some buyers are having it is causing wholesalers to be viewed poorly. I was about to write a post discussing wholesaling etiquette. That changed slightly when coincidentally, and without provocation, someone contacted me the next morning with an apparent lack of trust for wholesalers.
Once again, I did not solicit this person for business, yet they chose to express their negative feelings. I'm fine with someone wanting me to earn their business. My issue is with being prejudged after they were the one that reached out to me. If I am a person that is weary of used car dealerships, why walk on to a lot asking for service, only to be pugnacious when someone is trying to help? I am always very flattered when a salesperson takes the time to know my needs as a consumer. To me it feels like they want to present a custom solution to my needs instead of trying shove me into something that isn't the right fit.
As far as wearing my big boy pants and not running to BP to start a thread about my feelings being hurt, I find that amusing. The goal is to have a positive impact and I had to break a few eggs to make that omelet. In fact since I posted this, a few wholesalers and investors have reached out to me to tell me they found my post helpful.
I love investors, I am one myself. Thankfully wholesaling and the relationships formed by doing good business was one of the ways I was able to get into investing. The intention of the post isn't to pit wholesalers against investors. It is to create a dialogue and have the two sides understand each other. I'm not worried about trying to score points with people with $$$, I'm advocating for wholesalers to treat investors well and visa versa.