Welcome TJ. This place is an awesome place to learn, you just have to take advantage. I would search for the area where you live in, and start seeing what other investors are doing and saying about that area. Try to network with them. The founders of this site have done a great job at creating an environment where people help each other out, and I'm sure more than a couple of investors will sit down with you or have a phone conversation. I've had this experience, and you can check my profile to see when I got started.
I'm no expert, but I will reply from my short experience.
1) Read and listen to:
http://www.biggerpockets.com/renewsblog/2013/08/15/wholesaling-business-lamar-cannon/
http://www.biggerpockets.com/renewsblog/2013/08/29/flipping-wholesaling-plan-sam-craven/
2) You're not in the business of finding buyers for the sellers. You are looking to acquire or control the property (assignment, purchase, etc) and sell it to your buyer. So you come across a Real Estate Business Entrepreneur. This is another good way to get burned with sellers, when you're not educated. A lot of them will have tons of questions because you are not a Realtor. This site is another great resource to get educated. Have you checked this out?
http://www.biggerpockets.com/real-estate-investing
3) This is where my experience really comes into play, and my advise is NO! At least you shouldn't trade money for someone else's time. What you should do is to use this site and find investors in your area, and try to exchange your time and resources for their time and knowledge. This site has everything you need to get started in RE.
4) My limited experience just allows me to offer the already given advice. The only thing that I'm seeing clearer and clearer, is that this business requires time, lots of time, because it should be a long term business. What makes it different to other venues, is that this industry's pay off is worth what you put in--something that cannot be said about other industries as often.
Good Luck TJ!