Originally posted by @Steve Vaughan:
I can name quite a few extremely knowledgeable members that were very generous with their time that up and stopped posting altogether. Most a few years ago, some more recently. I don't know why they left or where they went, but I feel repetitive answer fatigue, too. I certainly yap a lot less than I used to.
I look to and connect with the new rock stars like Caleb that are out there helping anyway they can. I don't reach out much, but when I do, it's usually to someone like him out there helping. Making connections (for sales and funding apparently) are not why all of us are here.
No, there shouldn't be a VIP area. Sheesh. Think of why Josh even built this thing. I wouldn't join a VIP area if you paid me, much less do I even bother being a 'Pro'. Let your stats do the talking if that's your thing.
Maybe start with the guy in your mirror. Instead of offering yet another JV deal, help someone out. Show you have the knowledge and experience to do something besides sell while you're here.
Steve is exactly right. I spent countless hours every week on BP, answering questions, explaining concepts. I fielded phone calls from newbies looking for advice and countless out of market investors looking for detailed information on DFW real estate. I've been told, more than once, I should be charging for the quality and level of information I was providing. I didn't, because I felt it was my responsibility to give back to the community.
I finally burned out. I got tired of people posting questions that have been answered 1000's of times, in the forums, in the blogs, on the pod casts, in FREE materials available for download right here on BP. About 2-weeks ago was my first sighting on BP in over 2-years. The problems have only gotten worse, but I'm doing what I have always done.
What's changed? My approach. I no longer spend time even reading questions on the forums, which would have been fully and better answered with a simple search of the site. I no longer get frustrated by the arrogance displayed by those asking the questions or even by some of those who think, simply because they've done a deal, they are the de facto expert and fail to recognize the difference between an opinion and a fact. So, I don't respond to posts that show a lack of initiative, because those people won't be successful, regardless of what I tell them. And, I now make liberal use of the "Mute User" feature. (Although, I seriously miss the Block button.)
If you're annoyed with the quality of the discussion on BP, then do a better job of private networking or change your interaction habits. In the end, this is simply a social media site, which happens to have a focused specialization around REI.