Originally posted by @Virginia Damato:
@Haven M.
I'm looking for long term buy and hold. I prefer BRRR because of the value added. I also have 35 years of real estate development and construction experience..
I have just never gone the Hard Money route..
How and where do you vet a lender..
I feel like there are just bad players out there..
Ty
There are bad players out there, like any other field, but there are a lot of good Hard and Private lenders out there as well. As for vetting, start with an initial conversation and just get a feel for them.
Good lenders are going to ask a lot of questions towards finding out IF you're a good bet to service the loan. If you talk to someone and they're making huge promises and saying they can throw millions of dollars your way without knowing anything about you, that's probably a sign they're not great at actual lending and are more interested in collecting as many fees and points as they possibly can.
Good Hard and Private money lenders will act very much like a bank would. Yes, we're lending based on the asset, but we still want to know about the person who is going to be managing that asset and feel like they can handle it if something goes a little sideways with the deal.
If you're not looking at buying right now, start reaching out and having those initial conversations. You'll probably get a pretty good feel just based on the tone of those conversations what kind of firm you're dealing with. Then have second and third conversations with the lenders you feel the best about to establish a relationship and clarity on their process when you are looking to buy.