@Eric Bilderback here is some more context... The max occupancy is 7, however, the guest made the reservation request for 4. After she accepted my terms (about no visitors), she messaged and asked to change the reservation to 8 guests, which exceeds my max occupancy. I am a reasonable person and want to accommodate, so I told her that I would accept but that the no visitor rule is firm, no negotiation - in which she agreed again.
Come night 2, we have the 8 people as identified in the reservation, then another 4 show up. They are drinking, being loud, taking shots, etc. I have fairly good audio on my outdoor cams so I have a pretty good idea of what's going on, especially when they are being loud/ partying. Further, one of the visitors walked out of my front door and hangs a right out of camera view (about 1:00am), and about 30 seconds later he comes back and is zipping up his pants. I'm pretty sure he was taking a piss in my front yard.
I messaged the guest via the app and no response. I assumed the guests left then, but I didn't take too close of a look as it was late for me. It was actually the guy going out in the front yard to take a piss.
Trust me, if it was just uncle bubba and aunt ruth hanging out for a few hours in the day, I wouldn't have minded.
We truly do want our guests to have a good time and enjoy themselves. Me and my wife want to provide an amazing experience for them, which we strive to do. What I don't want is them causing problems with my neighbors - which will create unneeded drama for me and jeopardize my STR.