Originally posted by @Mike Dymski:
All this stuff about a problem resident, getting nasty, lost in transit, and missing pictures is all just unrelated emotional noise. You are not asking for advice on what to do...it appears that you have an axe to grind and are simply asking if you can keep the deposit. And you didn't get the answer you were seeking as every reply recommended simply resending it. You got a problem resident out and the security deposit covered damages and unpaid rent...time to be happy and move on.
Actually, I was asking for advice on what to do. I was asking whether it is my job to go to the ends of the earth to get her money back to her or if it’s not my problem anymore after an allotted time period. If she even has a claim to it after all this time. Statutes don’t mention that at all for some reason so I needed clarification. The few answers I got yesterday either said send it or call my local Magristrate to know for sure what to do. Obviously the correct answer is to call my local Magistrate, as I’m sure the solution to this problem varies from state to state. So, yeah, I did get the answer I was seeking. Going into detail about the pictures, her attitude, and the letter that never reached her is absolutely not “unrelated emotional noise”, it is explaining the situation and my reluctance to comply with her demand to resend the money to yet another unconfirmed address. I follow the law, not a former tenant with a god complex. Was hoping to find someone online who had dealt with the same situation before but no such luck.
I called my local Magistrate this morning and was advised to go ahead and send it to the new address she gave me, and if that doesn’t reach her too, to just hold onto it until further notice.
On a side note, I got a rather unpleasant text this afternoon from her reminding me that since it is way past the 30 days I had to send the letter, she is now entitled to her entire security deposit. I reminded her that I did send it within 30 days, but it never reached her. She said it’s my fault the letter never reached her. How..? I told her I sent it to the address she gave me and the people who lived there refused the letter, & the usps couldn’t find her after that as she had no forwarding address. She still says that’s not her problem and threatened to sue me today if I don’t send her the ENTIRE amount back! She argued with me a few months ago after 10 days had passed since she moved out and she hadn’t received her deposit in the mail, and told me that I had 5 days left or she was getting a lawyer. I informed her that I actually had 30 days to send it to her as I intended to deduct a claim. She got mad and said there’s nothing to deduct because she left the house perfect. Told her I have pics of the damage and filth and I will be sending her a copy so she can see for herself. Radio silence after that. Now, months later she says since the letter didn’t reach her with 30 days I lost my right to deduct a claim from her deposit. So...yeah. Starting to think she gave me a bum address on purpose so she could pull this stunt.