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All Forum Posts by: Genny Li

Genny Li has started 21 posts and replied 422 times.

Post: Wife doesn't want to increase rents

Genny LiPosted
  • Baltimore, MD
  • Posts 431
  • Votes 280
Originally posted by @Dan H.:
Originally posted by @Account Closed:

We raise the rents 3% to 5% every year to attempt to keep up with inflation. Every year, in California, your property taxes increase 1%, water doubled and tripled in the past few years., the prices for materials and contractors has more than doubled.

You are running a business and it is not about being generous. Every business that is operated like a business raises their prices every year to keep up with increased costs. One more important reason we raise rents every year is so tenants actually expect to get an increase notice. If you don't raise rents you will have serious problems making a good profit when you sell the property because buyers want properties with the highest rents, obviously.

One thing a very wise man told me 48 years ago was that if I wanted to have a good relationship with my wife I needed to keep her out and away from my business and since that day my wives (all 3 of them) never had a say in what I did. Sorry, but I don't understand why married people think they have to have their spouse's approval for everything they do. I own several apartment building in Los Angeles county, several homes in several states and I never ever asked my wife whether or not I should buy or sell a property and because I never involved my wife she already has the expectation that I don't involve her in my business affairs. I don't need my wife's input nor do I need her approval with the exception of during the night.

Maybe, your wife is putting up some of the cash, or you are pulling cash from the family's retirement money and you need your wife's approval. In that case, just agree with your wife for now, buy the property and send a few rent increase notices with you think it is appropriate and I can't understand why any woman on this planet would not like a little more free cash to spend at Nordstroms and that brings up another small subject about how my wife and I discuss money and other issues. We ride bicycles about 100 miles every week and almost every week we stop at Nordstroms so my wife can get bag loads of Shiseido makeup. My wife tries to tell me how much money she spends and I always tell her that I don't want to know. I know she spends about $500 to $700 every month on makeup and I don't want to know if she pays $3000 for a purse. I respect my wife's decisions in regards to her ability to avoid spending more that she should, or more than we can afford and my respect for her avoids arguments.

I buy properties without asking my wife and I don't want my wife to ask for my approval when she wants to buy something.

I've been married to my current wife for 23 years and only had maybe 2 or 3 minor issues that lasted less than a few minutes.

>One thing a very wise man told me 48 years ago was that if I wanted to have a good relationship with my wife I needed to keep her out and away from my business and since that day my wives (all 3 of them) never had a say in what I did. Sorry, but I don't understand why married people think they have to have their spouse's approval for everything they do.

This made me laugh.  Starts off looking like sage advice to a happy wife then you indicate you have had 3 wives (not exactly a ideal relationship with each wife).  I do recognize later you indicate wife #3 has lasted 23 years, but by the time I read that part I already had my laugh.  

My wife and I are partners in our property investments.  She does most of the interaction with the tenants.  I do most of the interaction with the contractors.   I also do most of the number analysis and she does most of the book keeping.  It works well for us because we have complimentary strengths.  We each agree on rent increases.  It used to be that she advocated lower increases than I did, but now we are mostly in sync on the rent increases. 

We both believe good tenants deserve to be a bit below market rents.  We do not want any of these tenants to be able to move into a unit at similar price that has just had a tenant turn over flip (clean, etc).  We recognize tenant turnover takes work and costs money.  We also realize, regardless of how thoroughly we screen, that there is some risk placing a new tenant.  So we believe financially we benefit from letting the better tenants be a little under market value.  The pretty good tenants we keep at market rent.   The poor tenants we raise their rent above market which typically results in the tenant giving notice and us replacing the poor tenants. We currently have zero poor tenants.

Note with rent control limiting the rent increase, the rent has to be near market rate for a legal rent increase to be able to raise the rent noticeably above market rent.  

 Come on. I always take marriage advice from people with 3 spouses. They're the experts. So much experience. Looool.

I also love the advice of don't question her wasteful spending and she won't have a reason to question anything you do!

She is, of course, only hanging with him after she got citizenship merely because something better didn't happen to come along, because she very well knows he is doing the same. Besides, he was old when she met him, and bluntly, young girls don't choose old men without a good reason. 

Post: Wife doesn't want to increase rents

Genny LiPosted
  • Baltimore, MD
  • Posts 431
  • Votes 280
Originally posted by @Bruce Woodruff:
Originally posted by @Genny Li:

If she wants to donate to a charity, donate to a charity. Your property isn't a charity. It's that simple.

She doesn't get it. They'll be out of business in 5 years with her in charge....

 I didn't read all the replies, just gave my immediate answer.  But ouch, this is a hard one. 

And reading through...oh my.  What a thread disaster.

I'm glad my husband and I are on the same page.  I just think through my reasoning aloud as I plan to raise the rent by $560. lol. (Only about $400 in reality since I'll be including utilities...) I waited a really long time until that was true. Can't do anything unless you're together.

Don't have to both be involved. My husband can't do anything handy to save his life. Brilliant man, but the absentminded professor type. I came home to a broken dishwasher that he had let overflow over and over in the kitchen while I was gone because he didn't really register the water and just mopped it up without telling me.  

Originally posted by @Adam Martin:

25 feet may be a bit too long for this but I have a high power echo leaf blower I use and it seems effective enough for me.  

 I think it's a bit far. And I also strongly suspect it's never been cleaned before. 

Originally posted by @Dmitry Prosvi:

The best set up is the one with flexible hollow rods with special attachements powered by air compressor, that way less chance of dryer duct to get disconnected in the wall or ceiling.

 Do you happen to have a link to one of these?  How big a compressor do I need? I have a really little one (great for finishing nails but slow for framing), and my dad has a big one, but dad's is not portable like mine.

Run for the board and make sure it's run responsibly. :) I lived in an unincorporated area, so the HOA maintained the community playground. That's not bad!

Post: Furniture for new rental

Genny LiPosted
  • Baltimore, MD
  • Posts 431
  • Votes 280

American Freight or a hotel supply wholesaler, especially the hotel supply resalers.

American Freight has better quality than most of Ashley's stuff by a good sight.

If the same woman is coming, absolutely not. Add a clause to your lease that says that DV is a breach of the lease agreement.  It's not necessarily easy to tell who the dirtbag is in this case--whether it was him, her, or a special brew of crazy because of them being mixed up together.

My neighbor's trust fund niece actually lost her house because she decided to stab her BF in it, and both their names were on the deed....

I was actually out of town when they moved in, but I'll be making an illustrated photo guide to basic things whenever I have time for future students. I have high turnover, as they're all students!  I even have little signs up telling them how to use the washing machine (always leave the door open to prevent mildew) and dryer (always clean the lint filter) and kitchen sink (no FOGs, no coffee grounds) because I can get away with it renting to kids.

Same kid just put a hole through the door with the doorstop. Arg. I was worried about those with the hollow-core doors.

Originally posted by @Joe Splitrock:
Originally posted by @Genny Li:
Originally posted by @John Clark:
Test it and if it's asbestos, have it professionally removed.

You have to disclose if it's asbestos, so your buyer when you or your heirs go to sell will demand a discount. "Encapsulated" will not be good enough. All my properties have modern systems (copper, not pex nor galvanized steel, plumbing, removed asbestos wherever located, no formaldahyde insulation, etc.) so when I drop dead my heirs will have no problem selling for top dollar.

Does it cut down on cash flow immediately? Yes. Allows me to gear rentals to people who value that sort of thing, pay more for renting it, and who are usually easier on a property to boot, so it comes out even in the long run.

Then there's disclosures to renters and forced removal anyway as cities put the screws to landlords (money trees) for tenants, and encapsulation will not be good enough. Did you know Chicago wants to mandate landlord-provided air conditioning? Might as well get ahead of the curve now and just have the asbestos professionally removed. Mark the problem "solved," not "fixed."

 PEX is a top modern system when done end-run into a manifold with zero connections behind drywall.  It will outlast copper in acid water systems by decades, and it has more freeze resistance than anything, plus if worse comes to worst, the copper thieves have no reason to destroy the house while the tenants are on a 2 week vacay.

 I agree, PEX is modern and is considered a low cost reliable water supply pipe. I am assuming that John meant to say polybutylene pipe, which is no longer being made. This pipe was used in the late 70's through early 90's before lawsuits shut it down. Some insurance companies will not cover houses with this type of pipe. It was used mostly in the south. Another form of plastic pipe is CPVC. I had this in a property. It is easy to work with, but prone to cracking if the building shifts. Really today, plumbers mostly use PEX or Copper for water supply. 

 Some people really hate PEX because there were some fittings with really high failure rates in the early 2000s.  Las Vegas had a bunch of houses with them.  So he might mean either?

Originally posted by @Lynnette E.:

Gosh, there is so much to this simple post!  The work is not making sense and the prices are crazy!

If the floor joists need to be replaced, then you can sister them or put in new ones from below.  That si simple and easy.  I have had a few houses that required this in TN.  My two kids have been able to sister joists since they were maybe 14.  The thing you also need to check is that the rim joist is in good shape.  IT it the one that goes around the other floor joists and hold them together.  IT is much harder to replace.  My two kids could do 6 regular floor joists in a few hours, its not hard.  That should not be expensive, nails, framing gun, wood, nothing special here.  Could be done with the tenant in place, but why wait?  Simple and fast repair.

Now, the subfloor is another thing.  That can not be done from underneath.  Saying the floors are in good condition is meaningless because you will be pulling the floor out to put the subfloor on those joists and then the floor goes on top of the subfloor.  You can not put the subfloor on top of the joists from below.  The hard part of putting in the subfloor is removing the old floor.  If you are keeping the old floor it is even more time consuming.  Again, not a high skill task, my teens do it, have on 2 houses so far.  Its not their favorite job though, hard on the knees.  If you are putting back in hardwood, that will be an expensive move.  The cost of hardwood floors is a lot in the labor, each piece cut and nailed in, on your knees!  This job would require taking everything off the floor, so best done with an empty house.  And you can walk on the floors to see if they have 'give'.  If so, I'd replace the floor before renting because it is easy to fall through, and a big liability.  I personally fell through a floor on one of my houses and went straight down 4 feet.  Pretty banged up for a month.  And I hire people to put in the hardwood, paid $8k for a huge living room, dining room and large master bedroom, included sanding to get a perfect leveled floor and final coating.

Ductwork, I think you need to get another opinion  Most of my houses have the ductwork under the house.  You can get auto open vents in the crawl space, a dehumidifier, vent one of those ducts to the crawl space to put in conditioned air, wrap the ducts, insulate them.  Lots of much cheaper things to do that will fix the problem.  

Now for encapsulating the crawl space.  Get a quote from a pest control company that you get a yearly spraying contract with.  They are by far the cheapest where I invest to do this because they like to crawl on the plastic instead of the dirt.  I once, for my personal house, got 2 quotes from heavily advertised companies that do crawl space work for their business, both at $5k.  The pest control guy did it for $300.  Yes, less than 10%.  So not a use the small pest control company for that work.

But do use your quote to negotiate.

Child labor is good labor, I always say. ;)  (I think it's important for my kids to learn stuff, too!)