To follow Jon`s advice I used deluxe version of MichaelBluejay`s Rent vs Buy which is the most comprehensive calculator I have found.
http://michaelbluejay.com/house/rentvsbuy.html
To do an apples to apples comparison I ran two scenarios.
#1 Renting a 3 bed/ 2 bath home vs buying one in the same school district. Assuming a 30 year fixed at 4.25%
https://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/XD_3I0rcw7nsczIljCuy5NMTjNZETYmyPJy0liipFm0?feat=directlink
#2 Renting a 2 bed/ 1 bath condo vs buying one in the same school district
Assuming a 30 year fixed at 4.25%
https://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/T04ejznvVXEyPsr8a5Yle9MTjNZETYmyPJy0liipFm0?feat=directlink
#1 Renting a 3 bed/ 2 bath home vs buying one in the same school district. Assuming a 15 year fixed at 3.3%
https://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/8YII3BJMlN-YhAesXG0QFtMTjNZETYmyPJy0liipFm0?feat=directlink
#2 Renting a 2 bed/ 1 bath condo vs buying one in the same school district
Assuming a 15 year fixed at 3.55%
https://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/LzOr_gGHU97cfqHFlkHhk9MTjNZETYmyPJy0liipFm0?feat=directlink
Seems like even with a [/b]0% appreciation I would be better off buying a 500k single family home than renting one. This is true for both 15 year and 30 year fixed interest rate. This comes as a surprise to me but I guess I was always comparing my current apartment rent(1bd/1ba) with cost of owning a SFH.
In reality cost of renting is going to be somewhere in the middle. If I was going to rent for next 30 years I would have most likely rented a condo for 5-6 years and then a single family as family got bigger.
So now knowing the numbers what would you do ?