@Fan Bi - We basically felt with the pandemic (and not being able to safely go out, eat out, etc) that this was the right time to move from renting to building equity. We are fortunate enough to be able to work remotely for the foreseeable future.
We initially considered everything from Hudson Valley area in NY to Texas to New England, and eventually landed on Providence or Worcester mostly because it was close to my wife's family. The numbers on paper for both cities looked decent (especially for our NYC salaries), and we're honestly leaning towards Providence for no other reason than to avoid any further delays in decision making. (Every city and strategy feels like it has potential and thus we are experiencing LOTS of analysis paralysis).
We definitely see the seller's market. It feels like every property is being snatched up. We felt house hacking in a multi-family might be a good way to go since it means we can live for "free" / take advantage of owner occupied mortgage rates (if not BRRRRing) etc. It does mean that we've been focused on annualized rates of return over cash flow/cash on cash return. Would be really curious what factors you look for when evaluating properties in MA/RI etc, where the market is more competitive and home prices are higher relative to rent.