@Ed L. , @Mike McKinzie , @George Maka , @Walt Payne , @Saul Urena ,
Thank you all so much for your input, especially your encouragement.
To respond to some of the comments:
- I don't own a home, but I also don't pay rent, property taxes, or utilities (long story), so I might be in a bit of a unique position when it comes to purchasing a property. For example, Walt, you said buy a duplex and live in half of it. Well, I suppose I could buy a duplex and rent out both parts, or a three- or quad-plex, or anything else since I have no mortgage or rent to make each month. The issue is that the size of the mortgage for which I will qualify, based on my salary, will only buy a SFH, duplex, etc., in a suburban war zone (which I lovingly refer to as 'class eff me').
- Ed, you mentioned flipping. My goodness, that frightens me so bad I feel like I might relive my beef flavored Ramen noodles (we call it rebeefing). I understand that I DON'T understand the process of flipping beyond "buy, rehab, sell." One of the reasons it seems so scary to me is that it's made to look so easy on television. In twenty-two minutes they buy, rehab, and sell a property. Ridiculous, I say!
- Ed you also mentioned that you were an agent for four years before you even tried to do your first deal. I gave that idea some serious consideration. My brother-in-law is NYPD and his coworker is also an agent, so I know it can be done to have a full time job and be a real estate agent on the side. It's not off the table, I just don't know how I would go about it right now.
- Saul you said don't let the negativity get the best of me. When I first read that I bristled a bit. I am more of a negative person, feeling like if I assume the worst I won't be disappointed when it happens and pleasantly surprised when it doesn't, however I didn't see anything in my post that was inherently negative. It was more about fear. But I reread the comment a few times and I think I do see what you mean. The fear in and of itself isn't the negative. The negative is succumbing to the fear. And you're right, I think I was heading down that road.
I want to thank you all so much for your kindness and acceptance. You may see your brief contributions as small and nearly insignificant, but as someone who needs a bit of hand-holding at times, I just want you to know it is appreciated. I look forward to developing my relationships on this site.
-Nick