Hi Ian, great question—and honestly, looking into pre-foreclosure is a smart move. It’s often one of the safest and most strategic ways to get a great deal, especially if you're aiming for a primary residence.
1) You’ve got a few viable routes here. Hard money is definitely one option, especially for short-term needs like this. You can use it to close on the property quickly, and then refinance into a conventional loan once the title is clean and everything is in your name. That’s a pretty common play.
Another option is to work directly with the current owner: sometimes, you can structure the deal where you cover just the foreclosure payoff with hard money, and have the seller carry the rest through short-term owner financing. If they’re in a tight spot and motivated to avoid foreclosure, they may be open to creative terms.
A third, lesser-known approach is to contact the foreclosing lender directly. In some cases, you can request to step in as the new borrower, basically asking them to rewrite the loan in your name. It’s not common, but it’s not unheard of—especially if the lender sees it as a clean exit from a problem asset.
2) This is something I’ve done for years—and with the right approach, it can work incredibly well. I've even written a book on it. The key is how you present yourself when dealing with the current owners.
Start by building a connection. Most people in foreclosure are already stressed and exhausted, and the last thing they want is another person in a suit trying to "offer help." Dress casually and blend in. Avoid coming off as wealthy or overly polished—no flashy cars, no big talk. Your goal is to be approachable and genuine.
When you meet the owner, listen more than you talk. Let them vent. It gives you insight, and more importantly, it helps them feel heard. Find something in common. If they’re Latino, speaking Spanish (if you're able) makes a big difference—it builds trust fast. And in some cases, it helps to have a woman initiate contact, especially if you’re aiming to present yourselves as a family looking for a home rather than investors. That often lowers their guard and creates a sense of comfort.
Body language matters too. Smile. Use their name. Make eye contact. Keep your posture relaxed and open—people pick up on those subtle cues, and it helps you come across as sincere and trustworthy.
When it comes to the actual negotiation, lead with empathy. Agree with their frustrations—about the bank, the system, whatever. Be someone who “gets it.” That alone can shift their whole attitude toward working with you. And when you make an offer, present yourself as someone who genuinely wants to help but has limited means. This justifies your price point and softens the negotiation. People are often more flexible when they believe you’re not trying to take advantage of them.
Best of luck, Ian. It really does work!