My situation is a little tricky but I am seeking thoughts from anyone willing to offer them!
I am a federal government employee who lives and works overseas. My goal has been to purchase a home in the DC/MD/VA area in the spring 2023 time frame because that's when I hope to return back to the area for 2-3 years. The idea would be to find a property that would allow me to house hack. The DC market is becoming more and more expensive and areas that used to be affordable are pricing folks out...you all know how that goes in many cities across the U.S. Nevertheless, this has been the goal.
Recently though, I have been wondering whether or not I am wasting time/money by not getting into real estate and going for an investment property. It is a goal of mine, I know I want to do it, but fear and the general reservations are holding me back. I am originally from the New Haven, CT area, still have family here, and there seem to be interesting opportunities to invest in 2 family homes that may be able to produce modest cash flow. I have been seriously thinking about putting some of my money in such a property but of course it would eat away at the resources I had been saving for a DC property. At the same time, I still have two years to make up what I invest in New Haven but it may price me out of a house-hackable property that I had in mind.
I guess I'd love to know what folks would do in my position. I have a sizable nest egg at this point and can easily put down 10-20 percent on a great multi-family in New Haven but are my aspirations to get in the game as soon as possible damaging my potential to be successful in the DC market, too? Should I prioritize the time value of purchasing a home over waiting? Would it make more sense to begin the process in DC instead of an area that I don't plan to live in?
If you read this far - thanks so much - I know that I wrote a novel and posed plenty of questions but could really use some wise advice from the community.