Thank you all for your replies. You've all given some great eye-opening advice that makes me feel like we might have some options.
@Jay Hinrichs We have found ourselves in almost the exact same position as your friend. In the past, the higher-cap places in the midwest were easier to come by and easier to turn around. This time it is proving a challenge, especially with the tenant base in OKC that we weren't familiar with.
@Britta Hild, @Joe G. I have been thinking your comments non-stop. Britta, I think you're right that change begets change. And Joe, I agree we need to take a closer look at our property manager. We are out on-site 2-3x/month for a few days at a time, but we've had the same PM from the start...and have also had the same results from the start. If we don't shake it up, how can we expect different results?
@Victor S. I agree that $25k/roof is outrageous! Unfortunately we've had 6-8 bids from different roofing companies and that's about the price they come in at. Can you recommend anybody else?
@Jessica Jay-Maleski @John Nachtigall You both open an interesting door with the suggestion of Section 8. We have had bad experience with these residents in the past, but perhaps at this particular property it will be a viable solution if all else fails.
@Kevin Sobilo I really like this idea. Ideally we would take this route moving forward - of course if the market allows.
@Jill F. We do have a late policy that we repeatedly let our residents know about. The issue is that by the 25th of the month, only about 55%-60% of the residents have paid their rent. They all bring in 'PTP's' (promise to pays). Given that we don't want to evict half of our residents at once, our PM tries to work with them. Do you think the solution would be to draw a hard line instead?
@Ian Walsh At this point if we sold we would lose all the $ we've put into the roofs and renovations + pre-payment penalties on our loan. We are in it!
Based on everybody's comments, our team has come up with a plan of action. We are going to explore different PM options as well as renovating a gutted unit to luxury standards and see if there is a market for it. There are good residents in the OKC market, they just don't know about us...yet! We are learning our lesson the hard way about the draw of more units at a higher cap in a rougher area.
For those of you asking about experience - I work for a company with 40+ years experience in property ownership/management. In the 70's when the company was started, multi-family didn't have anywhere near the interest or $ in it that it does today. It wasn't unusual to find great deals on beautiful properties with 200+ units. Or so I'm told! As you all know, that is no longer a reality in today's market.
Thank you again for all your suggestions. Feel free to keep them coming. Your comments have spurred us into action, and have let us see options and problems that we were not seeing. BP is the best!