@Jillian Conklin I think it's great you guys are wanting to get involved more on the investment side than the contract side, even if it is being pushed by you. There are a few things you should be aware of, and @Greg Scott honed in on one of them.
#1: Whether you go through a bank, Hard Money or even private money (assuming they are actually in the business of lending) you will need to put money down. ANy lender that will loan to you requires "skin-in-the-game". The primary ways around this are you find private money (different than private lenders) or you build a long-term relationship with a private lender (ie; completing a LOT of deals) and the PL allows you to do a 100% funded project. Either way, you will need to have a downpayment.
#2: You will also need to have additional capital for closing costs, and holding costs of carrying the loan and paying for utilities throughout the project. As well you will want a contingency reserve for "whoops" factors on your project. Historically its been around 10% of the project costs, however in today's rapidly adjusting materials costs world, it may be wise to set aside 15% as a contingency reserve
#3: There are THREE primary sources of capital in RE Investing - A) Hard Money Lenders "HML" | B) Private Lenders "PL" | C) Private Money "OPM". Each one is unique and different, however, the terms are often skewed, and this is intentionally done. Let's start off with HML.
- Hard Money Lender "HML": Historically HML charged A LOT of points upfront and maxed out the annual rate. HML over the past few decades have become synonymous with "Loan Sharks". This of course does not benefit an HML as far as public perception. After the 08" financial crisis you started to see HML "rebrand themselves as PL. Why? Private lenders historically were an individual who had a boat loan of money and did not know what to do with it. They were your "family" and "friends" as you even mentioned above. So HML realized that by simply shifting the terminology of what they called themselves from one that causes a visceral reaction, to one that makes you think of your rich uncle smoking a pipe on the front porch and handing out all the cheap, abundant cash he has... well they could change the way the public perceives them.
- Private Lender "PL": Historically speaking PL was actually today's definition of private money, I'll cover that in a minute. Now as the HML has begun absorbing this term, it's even more important to discover the difference between a PL and an HML who calls themself a PL. A TRUE PL is someone who lends out their own capital, also called portfolio lending, because they, the PL, keep the Mortgage and Note as part of their personal portfolio. A TRUE PL NORMALLY will not pull credit, or check your tax returns or verify your income. Now with the advent of many vendors in the lending space realizing that there are PL who have a business and need business functionality, you may see a PL actually pull credit and do some of these other checks that historically speaking have only been required by HML. I won't go into why a credit check is so important to investors so that they know what type of lender they are dealing with but it speaks volumes when an investor requests a loan and the "Private Lender" requests a credit score check.
- Private Money (Other Peoples Money) "OPM": You hear this type of capital investor preached from the stage at every REI seminar and event. This is the "Goose that laid the golden egg". These are "Family" and "Friends". Most likely they are not sophisticated in the REI space and they have no idea what questions to ask you to vet the validity of the deal. They truly ar lending NOT based on asset (because they don't even know how to "vet" the asset) they are "lending" based solely on the relationship between them and you. This type of investor is almost always happy to simply beat the market/ ie saving account. And the fact they know you, the better they feel. The problem is that the Gurus have not kept up with the "hostile takeover" of the term PL being acted out by the HML. Therefore these Gurus are teaching their student to go find "Private Lenders". But in reality, a PL is NOT the OPM, instead, the PL is someone running a business, they are sophisticated and they know how to mitigate risks and cover their downside. So many REI students get frustrated when they try reaching out to PL (because that's what their trainer/ teacher taught them to do) thinking that the PL is actually OPM.
Now, why did I go over all of this? Well twofold, to give you insight for when you are searching for a lender, ensure you know who you're speaking with. Two borrowing money is not the scary thing that many people think it is. By, finding the right lender, and having them in your court, it can make getting your first of many projects under contract and closed, easy, smooth, and refreshing. My suggestion is to find a local PL that is in the business of lending. Typically a small shop and not a company that has a large national presence. Then do your research on the PL. Depending on the state they may or may not need a lic. Most PLs do not need a license to lend to an entity buying property for investment (business) purposes. If I can be of any assistance please reach out. Best wishes and much success!