@Ryan Guffey - you can do it! It's all about priorities. I have a family of 7 - wife and 5 boys (6 to 16yrs old ), work an 80hr a week job, and have renovated a duplex and built a spec house in my spare time over the last 3 years. Do I take time for myself? Not much. I run/lift a bit, but other than that I've gotten use to working from 5 or 6am to 12pm or 1am, then doing it all over the next day - pretty much 7 days a week... One piece of advice I have to give is with a family or significant other - it's all about expectations and the story. If you can weave a storyline where they understand why you're doing it, how long it might take, and where you'll be when you're done - they'll be more likely to follow or help you get there. I'm always explaining and telling my family the story of where we've been and we are going. I keep painting the big picture so they don't get lost in the woods. And of course you can house hack. We moved all 7 of us into a 1350 sq/ft duplex (which equates to less than 200sqft per person) and we were able to reduce our housing cost to just utilities, because the other side paid the mortgage and all other taxes and insurance (principal, interest, taxes and insurance = PITI payment). That duplex catapulted us. I'm an attorney and my kids were always saying - "Dad why don't we live someplace nice?" And why do you drive a 15yr old truck? But then I'd go through the story line again, explain assets and liabilities and they would say "oh so I could do that too - and not have to work the rest of my life?" That's when you know you're doing the right thing. Also I would use any opportunity to combine the work and family time. I would take my boys (even the 8yr old) and do work with them on the house. Not because they were helpful - but so that we actually would spend time together. It's a great teaching tool! That being said, now when we discuss it, and they know how close we are to financial independence, they're like - wow! We did that together!?! Thanks, Dad! It's an amazing feeling for me, and the are developing the work ethic and vision so hopefully they can do it much sooner than me. Feel free to reach out if you need anything!