All Forum Posts by: Douglas Quayle
Douglas Quayle has started 1 posts and replied 3 times.
Post: Would you contribute to a 401k or TSP without employer matching?

- Pleasanton, CA
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Post: New member from Northern CA

- Pleasanton, CA
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Thanks all.
Yes, CA is a tough nut to crack. I'm originally from here but been all over the globe. Watched my hometown market rapidly price out the majority of the peers I grew up with and most have been driven out toward the Sacramento/San Joaquin Valley if they wanted to even THINK of buying vs. renting. We have tried to hold on here, but the 3/2's here are in the $1M range for mid 80's construction and not much lot.
@Manolo D, my VA loan isn't much help in a market where everything sells for over asking, in a matter of days and are mostly "cash". We are flooded with Chinese and Indian 'bigger pockets" here. MUCH bigger pockets.
@Ryan Jackson, I'm capped out at E-6 due to manning, and losing my airframe soon (new jet coming eliminates the Flight Engineer position), so big changes are coming for me regardless of whether I want them.
I'm coming to the conclusion that nothing will change until I pick the right 6 numbers on a Lotto ticket, or I pack up and move.
Again, appreciate the welcome. Hope to chat with y'all soon.
Don't let me complain and whine. I came here to find productive ideas and creative solutions, so if all I do is complain about what I already know, throw darts at me until I shut up and start asking good questions that get me back towards a cash flow existence.
DQ
Post: New member from Northern CA

- Pleasanton, CA
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Hello. My name is Doug, but you might as well call me Dr. AnalysisParalysis, because I have an honorary PhD in procrastination via research.
I've spent a few years reading and listening and combing through all the ideas, but I'm still stuck at the starting line. Married with a (special needs) 19 year old kid and fairly debt free, but there won't be any appreciable cash-savings to play with ANY time soon working and living where I do. In the past decade, the free cash has never escaped the 4th figure bracket.
I'm active duty Military out of the Silicon Valley in NorCal, and I make the civilian (tax-advantaged) equivalent of approx. $105k/yr, but I am barely existing as a vested member of the paycheck-to-paycheck club in my run down rented 2BR, 1k sq ft house, enjoying my up to 2 hour each way commute to go 32 miles of bumper-to-bumper pure joy. :-/
This HAS to end. There HAS to be something better than this 'existence' life. When I retire from Uncle Sam, I couldn't so much as pay my rent here with the pension that 20 years of service will buy you.
I need to pick a new club. New peer group. I just turned 40. I better pick one soon, or my fate is sealed. I didn't even celebrate the big "4-0" last month, because I am so upset with my lack of forward progress paddling against the stream.
So, that's why I ended up here on this site. I can't buy a house to LIVE in here, much less to flip or buy and hold. I better get smart, or I'll blink my eyes and find myself old(er) and broke(er).
I know I am not alone. And I hope I don't have to re-invent the wheel. Hope to make some friends here that are smarter than me, and have more experience.
Even if that experience tells me to "get real" and to "move away from that insane place".