Hello everyone, thank you all so much for the feedback. I understand and agree with everything that has been said. I know that ultimately i need to be factoring in all costs. If i am being honest, running the numbers on the property i am looking at now, including a PMI and mortgage insurance and all variable expenses, where i believe i can get rents on both sides the property would come out even. However again, we would not be renting out both sides in the beginning but we would live in one side.
I feel that in Southern California it is so rare to see anything that works. I would say that this is most likely true in most parts of the country these days from what i am reading and hearing.
I feel our goals are slightly different at this point in the game and i am trying to gage on how our current situation can affect our decision making. This would be our first property , and one that we are trying to live in. The property would absolutely be a value add on as it is old and simple updates can make a big difference (paint, cupboards, landscaping etc). We really at this point want to get in the game and supplement our monthly cost. Currently we pay $1700 in rent for a very small studio in Santa Barbara. In my mind, if i can find a duplex to house hack and have that other side rent payment make my mortgage less then $1700, i am starting off well. And then the goal is when we are ready to move out (would be several years after) have the second half rented and be cash flowing. I just cant get over the PMI and how that crushes my numbers, and we do not have the money to put 20% down. I know that PMI is not forever and will go away after a certain %LTV.
If you can make sense of anything i am saying let me know. Thank you all again for all your time and feedback.