I've had a similar issue. I moved from Los Angeles to Nashville recently and am working with a private money lender, as I had some credit issues and no job. The lender told me we could close quickly, in 7-10 days. The appraisal took forever and only moved forward when I called local appraisers here and got it moving. Then they said 5 days once they received the appraisal. That blew by. I finally signed the loan docs, and they said it will take 5 days from then. So that has now come and gone, and the only information I can get is that it is "in review" with the intake team. But they won't give me an estimate of when they'll be reaching out to my escrow person. All in All, this 7-10 day loan has now gone past the 30 day mark. I'm stuck in an Airbnb with all my stuff back in Los Angeles on the moving truck and now I'm being charged for storage. Can I at least deduct the moving storage and future rentals from their fees because they are dragging their feet?