Originally posted by @Genny Li:
You definitely have the drive to become a successful agent. You should work as an actual agent and do investing on the side as you have the money. You were actually working for someone else before, even if you got paid on commission--while you were technically in real estate, you weren't an investor. And that's okay. A lot of people have this nutty idea that they will get one house and quit their job. And then what? Live on beans and rice forever and tell everyone they're "early retired" living on passive income? Use the job! Learn the market! Acquire the best properties for your goals over time! The world is your oyster. ;) lol
Honestly, if you got your first fourplex in 2 years...then your next one five years later...then another three years later...you'd have 12 doors in less than 10 years, which would be fabulous. You want a lot more money just hanging out in the bank than you probably think at your age. I personally wouldn't quit my day job until I was netting more than $100k a year on my rentals, and after self-insurance and the rest, that would be pretty beans and rice if I was still trying to save like $25k a year for more investments. It just takes a whole lot more money than you think to have a nice life on rental income. Like $200k a year before a big capex expense wouldn't make me groan because I'm now not able to buy my next unit when I hoped. That can be 50 doors...or more. 50 doors gives you a very comfortable middle-class lifestyle from cashflow and then a bangin' wealth level. A real estate millionaire is wealthy according to normal standards, but they aren't rich in terms of income. You can turn your wealth into income, of course, but then it's not wealth anymore. lol.
People quit their jobs way too fast. I like watching one guy who buys houses for less than $20k and rehabs them from the inside out completely by himself for less than $15k and then rents them out....for all of $600/mo, because that's the rate in that area. Seeing all the work he does, and all the time it takes him, and the fairly low resale value of the houses, it just kills me. He's happy, he's debt-free, he does woodworking on the side for more income and youtube as well with sponsorships, but all of that incredible work for a measly $2000 a month he's up to now after years, when he's spending so much on the cost of the rehabs and so much on the houses (which is a lot when you're only making $2k per month) is just mind-blowing to me. If I busted my butt for nearly 10 years, I'd want some actual creature comforts by the end of that, not making "bored cashier"-type money. There's nothing at all wrong with being a cashier, of course, but it's a far cry from killing yourself working 12 hours a day.
I could possibly see myself becoming an full time realtor since it will benefit me in many ways, but right now I feel much more inclined in the acquisition, investing, and flipping parts of real estate. This choice is tough, especially since I wasn't expecting to make such a big decision all of a sudden. Being my age, I know I have time as my advantage, but I've talked to hundreds of people that wish they were able to get started in REI at my age, and it makes me feel like I need to make something happen soon.
I know I won't be financially free after 1-2 properties, and I know it's going to take a LOT of time and work to get to that point of being "financially free". Maybe I phrased my words wrong when I asked "how to become self dependent in real estate" in my original post. I am not meaning I want to retire early, in fact, I want to do just the opposite. I want to work my A$$ off in real estate, but I'm not sure what path to take in order to be able to do it on my own. Working for someone established is great, but this sudden company closure has shown to me that no matter how established someone is, you're still relying on them and it can come to a sudden halt. I'm still open to working for someone, but I still want to begin my own journey in real estate investing so I can have another source of income and another option to devote my time and effort into if needed.
I'm really looking into a MFH house-hack since it's the easiest way to begin my portfolio. However, I still live with my parents for little to no cost, and they aren't pressuring me to move out any time soon. This makes me wonder if I should just buy a SFH with a conventional loan that needs cosmetic updates, fix it up a bit for some sweat equity, and rent it out or sell it. It would eat heavily into my savings though, so that's my only hold back.
If all else fails, I could go back to manual labor as a job, but I'd be really upset if things got to that point. I worked intense jobs for 5 years hoping to someday transition into real estate, and it'd really suck to go back.