Thank you everyone for your posts, it’s always good to have various perspectives. The problem with this whole situation is the optics from the beginning. Imagine if you or I were to call up our lenders or anyone we owe money to and give them NOTICE that we aren’t going to pay for 90 days. Imagine what kind of response we would get and how we would be treated? Whoever in the commercial business industry who came up with this idea and all the stupid CEOs that followed along are gravely mistaken. The arrogance of their email to me just set me off from the beginning. Do they really think that the pandemic is only happening to them and they can just tell people what they’re going to do and who is going to provide them their bail out? The emails I’m getting now are more of the ones that I should’ve gotten from the beginning. Giving me figures of why they’ve been down and I think honestly had they come to me from the beginning in a way conducive of working together instead of ordering me around, I would be more open to work with them.
There are some parts to their contract that I don’t like from the previous owner that I bought the building from. I tried to negotiate on those and make it a win-win for both of us, and thus giving them the 90 days of capital they desire. They are not interested in that and I’m telling them no based on their arrogance and command that I am going to provide their bail out.
Once again, this whole idea from national business to treat their landlords with arrogance and command us around was a big mistake.  Show a little humility and humanity and they will find there are compassionate people willing to help them