Thank you very much @Troy Gandee & @John Semanchuk for the great insight!
The house inspector was speaking more generally and said that he has seen grown men crying about the damage termites can leave...
Yesterday we had the CL100 and unfortunately they found signs of previous termite damage and signs of treatment. Also some woodrot (but I already saw that during the walkthrough).
I don't really know what that means - how bad/costly is that? Can I still get a termite bond? What does a bond mean, is it like a insurance and if there is any damage they will fix it? Or will they not even offer a bond since there was prior damage?
Unfortunately my Realtor ordered the CL100 without consulting with me... with a company called Arrow, they also seem to offer bonds for 1300 USD initial fee.
I looked at terminix but see only subterrane termite protection. For the ultimate protection there is no price mentioned. Same for massey. Based on the prior conversation I think I would try to work with Massey. Would they offer a termite bond despite the prior termite damage?
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HOA seems to have rather strict rules. I think therefore the way with the "Roommate" would be the best option. Attached a picture of the kitchen with the way up to the Frog and into the Garage. Here is where I would like to try to separate the house from the Frog/roommate area and ideally still have one Garage and a little storage space. Based on the picture do y'all think its doable? Does anyone know where the line is between roommate and a separate unit?
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I'm starting to feel uneasy about this deal. They were asking for 375K and accepted 362K. I knew the roof was 20 years old and needs to be replaced within the next 1-3 years. AC disclosure read 10 years, but now seems to be original and now the termite thing which I really cant gauge...
+ We've been informed by the lender that the ex-wife of the seller is still on the deed and thus needs to sign but has refused for 2 weeks now. As the divorce settlement is through he is trying now to get the house deeded in his name.
I agreed to 362 as-is, but the CL100 and the incorrectly disclosed AC + contract holdup? Is that enough to ask for an additional discount?
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For the home insurance I still don't know what's appropriate for the dwelling coverage for a 360K property... Hurricane is included. I have now 6 different quotes and my question regarding the amount was answered 3 times by 'whatever you feel comfortable with'... Is there no rule of thumb? Anyone else have an opinion regarding Earthquake?
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For contractors and AC-guys I'll reach out to you Troy and John once I know more.
Thanks everyone for the comments!