Hi I wanted to comment on your scenarios bc there are many misconceptions about loan modifications. The purpose of a loan modification is to bring a loan contractually current and make the new payment in line w/ the new economic situation the owner is experiencing. If your lender is advising you have to bring the loan current in order to get a mod, that is false and your are probably dealing w/ the collections dept (they receive commission for the amount of money they bring in so they are incentivized to get as much as possible!). In addition, it is not possible for you, as your wife's husband, to buy the property as a short sale bc it is not a "arms length transaction" which is a requirement of most lenders/servicers in approving a ss (most have affidavits that will need to be signed attesting to this). If retention is what you want then a loan mod is your best bet (best chance at a decent new payment and least expensive) and your wife's income is the only one that is "required" to obtain it (assuming she can support one based on the DTI ratios they use). If her income alone is not sufficient you then have the luxury of contributing to the household, if you so choose. Be cautious of this though as the more gross income you have the higher the new payment may end up being bc that is what they base the new mtg payment on. Only contribute enough to make the mod happen. With a good modification it is typically not even required that a cash contribution be made in order to get back on track as the terms of the mod usually make that happen!