Every deal I've ever done has blessed everyone involved. If it's not a win for everyone, then I want out of the deal. I am a full-time pastor, and Real Estate is my side business so that my wife can stay home with our kids. I operate by the highest standards and take great pride in treating others fairly. There are three options available to people who sell homes: speed, convenience, and price. Of the three, a seller can typically choose only two. Most sellers are most interested in price, but it would be incorrect to assume that EVERYONE is most interested in price.
Every homeowner I speak to is told four very important things:
1) You should probably list with a realtor, and here's why (and I'll provide Realtor references if you'd like)
2) If you don't want to list, you should probably rent it out
3) If you do choose to do business with me, I will not be able to give you market price for your property, but I will be able to offer speed and convenience.
4) I may or may not actually be the one to close on your property. I may assign it to another investor for a profit, I may keep it and flip it for a profit, or I may keep it as a rental for cash flow. Are you ok with those scenarios?
Total transparency is the name of the game, and if folks aren't cool with all of that, we shake hands and part amicably. I've never had someone get upset with me for being honest. In fact, on more than one occasion I've been thanked for being so forthright, even though we didn't do a deal.
The last people whose home I purchased had tried to sell it on the open market but could not because of its condition. Other wholesalers low-balled them and they refused the offers. I offered $20,000 more than the next best offer, additionally helped them negotiate down a $20,000 lien to $6,000, and still made a healthy profit. The couple literally was in tears at the close because they were so grateful. They knew I was not operating a charity in buying their home - they knew I was going to make money, and they were thrilled for me. In fact, the owner asked me, when I made my offer, if I was sure I would make money at that number. I could have backpedaled, offered less, and still got the deal, but I stuck to my original offer.
For these homeowners, they were desperate to offload this house, didn't know where to turn, had been mistreated by other wholesalers and sharks, and the offer I made allowed them to move on, clear the books of debt and back taxes, get some much-needed medical work done, and ultimately get a fresh start.
My church ministers to down-and-out folks in our community. I have had tenants whose kids have come to our church on the buses we send out into the community to reach these families. I have a heart for helping people, and ethical wholesaling is, in my opinion, one of the best real estate niches, as it helps people in distress, earns a solid income, and helps revitalize communities one distressed house at a time.
My encouragement to everyone in this business is
1) Don't judge every wholesaler or wholesaling coach just because there are some unscrupulous operators out there
2) Have a go-giver mindset, that the more you give back, the more you're going to receive (not just monetarily speaking)
3) There are LOTS of ways to make an honest living in RE - wholesaling is one of them