I don't want to step on anyones toes not even our landlord. For the record, she is a jerk, which has nothing to do with her landlord abilities. She's just not a pleasant person. I don't wish her ill will or anything of that sort, just to be clear.
When I say difficult I just mean that I would have hoped she would be willing to work with us for an extra couple days. Im not a landlord so Im not pervy to what kind of loss our landlord would have with losing a couple days. We would of course pay a prorated amount of our rent or whatever she wants to raise the rent too. As that is not the case we will have to find another solution to this.
Reaching out to our builders we can't get garage access ahead of move in because they can't be liable for our belongings.
As of right now and thanks to everyones input here, we are pushing for a May 1st move in date. We will have 1 or more moving trucks packed the weekend before and stay in a hotel or at a friends that night.